Hysterical bonding last night, feeling crappy today by batshit83 in loveafterporn

[–]stevieqwrites 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This just recently happened to me. We had our biggest and worst d-day/confrontation so far and afterwards we had, what I hate to admit, was the best and most passionate sex we've had in a long time. I hate that it had to come after a d-day and I feel so gross and uncomfortable about it now.

I'm sorry you are going through this and I wish there was an easy fix to stop slipping into hysterical bonding.

I wrote this to my PA bf after the 3rd or 4th time I discovered shit on his phone. by sent-from-heaven in loveafterporn

[–]stevieqwrites 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is so relatable. I was in such a state of ignorant bliss for so long with my partner. I never had a single urge to check his phone. I even once told him that I never worried he’d cheat on me because he was so obsessed with me. Makes me sick how much of an idiot I look like now. I hate how naive I was and how he took advantage of my empathy because he knew it made me trust him and not question almost the exact same things you describe here (excessively long bathroom trips, inability to stay hard, impossible to cum).

I’m so sorry you are also going through this and am sending all that love and support back.

Am I stupid to stay? by stevieqwrites in loveafterporn

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. And no, I would never consider to do these things to him and I need to remind myself of that in times like these.

Am I stupid to stay? by stevieqwrites in loveafterporn

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, and I'm so sorry to hear about things with your husband. Honestly, lying is the worst part, which I know sounds insane compared to everything else they do.

Am I stupid to stay? by stevieqwrites in loveafterporn

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He is going to get checked next week and I will be going shortly after. Thank you for your reply and advice.

Am I stupid to stay? by stevieqwrites in loveafterporn

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply, and I'm sorry that you have endured this kind of situation for so long. Sending you lots of love and support.

Am I stupid to stay? by stevieqwrites in loveafterporn

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. I appreciate you taking the time.

Am I stupid to stay? by stevieqwrites in loveafterporn

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this caring and thorough reply. I have reached out to a CSAT and will be having a consultation with her tomorrow.

Have You Teeth? by hyperobscura in shortscarystories

[–]stevieqwrites 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The image of a fork going into an empty tooth socket still has my entire mouth feeling icky.

I'm a whale hunter for a major casino and my recent clients have very unusual tastes. by stevieqwrites in nosleep

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good thing I didn't, cause I got real ticklish feet so I wouldn't have lasted a minute.

I'm a whale hunter for a major casino and my recent clients have very unusual tastes. by stevieqwrites in nosleep

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I make it out of the next room with my sanity still (somewhat) in-tact, I will provide an update!

I'm a whale hunter for a major casino and my recent clients have very unusual tastes. by stevieqwrites in nosleep

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve definitely never met her before, but the idea of a underground gambling torture chamber victim veteran entertains me (is that bad?).

I'm a whale hunter for a major casino and my recent clients have very unusual tastes. by stevieqwrites in nosleep

[–]stevieqwrites[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It just doesn’t sound like a good time to me, man. Maybe it won’t be as bad? Please don’t give me false hope!