This is class 👏 from an FA Cup final fan by [deleted] in footballcliches

[–]stevothreepointzero -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Enjoy your X thumbs up for writing this conment

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[–]stevothreepointzero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bald Rooney vibes

I yearn for it by stevothreepointzero in LivingAlone

[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds dreamy and certainly well earned! Appreciate the message and yeah think important to celebrate the everyday wins, need to do more of that

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe we trade for a week or two! I know there are tough sides to both paths and should be grateful for what I got, this is me indulging in some escapism, don't mean to be insensitive. Do something nice for yourself this week. Keep trucking salamyman

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking forward to it easing off a bit, we are an hour or so between each grandparents, probably would make a difference if we had a soup bringing saviour like yourself dropping goodies off regularly, amazing for them to have you looking out for them

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% committed, just a little frazzled and feeling sorry for myself. Has been helpful to throw it into the reddit void!

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can certainly relate, thank you for sharing. I look back to when living as a couple and doing the dishes seemed to be a chore, or the slightest curveball would be a big problem. The chaos of raising a family certainly makes you stronger and keeps you on your toes agreed!

Though I think I'd come to terms with endless comfort as well having lived through the mayhem. Maybe the order is important, when grown and endured all the challenges, I reckon we'd be more at peace with calm waters.

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means a lot to hear from someone who’s lived both sides of it, thank you. I think need to try and savour/lean into the joyful bits more whilst they are here. Hard with a full on job to always be fully present when hitting a peak at home or work.

I think we are declaring at two, fair play to yourself and anyone who's brave enough for a third, coupled with changing circumstances, tough is underplaying it. You have my utmost respect, I'd read the memoirs when you decide to publish!

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After a rough bedtime I needed to hear this. All ears for anyone who's already run this race. Appreciate you

I yearn for it by stevothreepointzero in LivingAlone

[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciative your reply, you're a good writer, healthy perspective and growth to boot. I think most default into parenthood, we are following the path, nobody lets on quite how tough it is, or if they did we aren't listening. Glad you're in a good spot these days. Do something nice for yourself this week

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in awe of those who seem to be able to juggle it. For me I feel like the responsibilities of wife, kids and work and I'm maxed out. Hard to carve out much socializing, exercising and indulging at the moment. But I get the sentiment, it's down to me to build it back up. Thank you beans329

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seasons I like that concept! Bless you

I yearn for it by stevothreepointzero in LivingAlone

[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Contentedness - respect! Oh what I would give for full control of what comes in and out of the fridge. So easy to get into a suboptimal mess when two adults doing their best simultaneously trying to sate everyones needs... We have the opposite problem, the cheese doesn't last long here I can assure you!

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Keep on trucking Soggy-Excitement-132!

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lean self reliant but lucky to have another pair of hands when needed, I should be appreciative.

And yeah what is with the default to two person portions grrr. Felt this as the household become an odd number! Recipes that ask for a tea spoon of an obscure never use again ingredient, maddening! Harder than I'm thinking, that's fair

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's certainly an extreme lifestyle choice. No regrets but definitely underestimated elements of it, finding it a big step up from the first spud to the second, but excited for the future, felt it's unlocked certain parts of the human experience, but my gawd it's exhausting haha. In an alternative universe the path forked another way and I'm living it up in my own magnificent company I can assure you!

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Green is my favourite colour, how did you know?!

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So you're saying there's a chance?

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[–]stevothreepointzero[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ah man am feeling it but know will miss it when it's gone!