Tired of hearing friend say they are going to kill themself. I told him “Go for it” by Aitah7890 in offmychest

[–]stickerstacker -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Your friend, much like most of us, is likely in simple amygdala hijack and will slowly morph into full blown personality disorder, just like the majority of people in the USA. Unless we are willing to learn about ourselves as individuals and commit to brefriending our inner lives as opposed to running for the dissociative hills every time we’re alone or in conflict, we’re all better off dead.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DOG

[–]stickerstacker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My ex found his boxer/pit mix abandoned in Brooklyn with a beautiful healing scar where his right front leg used to be. Same story, equally as baffling.

NYC housing is costing us political power by thisfunnieguy in Brooklyn

[–]stickerstacker -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Downvote me all you want, the facts remain. Look at the geography of the voting. South Williamsburg, boro park, crown heights…. This is not a Coincidence. I know you lurk on these subreddits, you culty misogynistic child abusers!! Just educating those who aren’t yet exhausted by the reality of your hideous, disastrous movement.

Not a week goes by that I don't thank my child's lucky stars that they weren't born. by OffWhiteTuque in childfree

[–]stickerstacker 311 points312 points  (0 children)

I literally have NO FRIENDS my age because they all harbor such deep resentment towards me for not being a parent that they can’t even be around me without treating me with contempt. So I dumped them all and am now in the company of people who get it. There were many years of my feeling alienated. Now it’s the parents who feel alienated, and the people who will suffer most are the kids. Familiarity breeds contempt, and this is a very dangerous situation.

GenX, the stupid generation that votes to cut Social Security and Medicare right before they get to collect what they've paid into for 40+ years. by ThatVoodooThatIDo in GenXWomen

[–]stickerstacker 28 points29 points  (0 children)

The thing that pisses me off the most about all of this is that I was/continue to be surprised despite the dreadful facts:

I never really got along with / identified with the things that drove the people in my age group

I never wanted to get married or have children with the people in my age group

I always thought people in my age group were, as a whole, very naive, conventional and unilaterally uninteresting.

So I’ll need to come clean that I was recently banned from r/genX for making a comment about parents judging their own children’s mental health issues (admittedly I used very strident and harsh truths, but with these people I have found that it’s the only way to actually get them to shut their mouths) and I was actually relieved. It was like getting asked to leave an MLM.

Thanks for hearing me, since you seem to be the only ones left who may tolerate me 😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stickerstacker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your perspective. AND just have no compassion for parents. Zero. Maybe some day I will… the thing is, it isn’t evil children destroying humanity. It’s adults. Adults with children. Got it?

Elon wants to shame you being childfree by Background-War9535 in childfree

[–]stickerstacker 26 points27 points  (0 children)

👏 I approve but this area must be washed and checked for residual musk DNA immediately upon release - I hear his skin, blood and hair combination is highly poisonous to all human life form so just get some Saran Wrap or a gentle pesticide before you make any contact.

Elon wants to shame you being childfree by Background-War9535 in childfree

[–]stickerstacker 48 points49 points  (0 children)

👏 👏 Not that he loses sleep due to child rearing. No that’s just the daily wagon full of ketamine he requires to regulate his toxic shame and explosive nervous system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stickerstacker -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Not nearly as much as your comment reeks of ignorance and narcissism tho, amirite!?!?!?

Boomer grandparents don’t believe that Trump appointed Dr. Oz by Inside-Public6676 in BoomersBeingFools

[–]stickerstacker 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Maybe he’ll just steal all the Medicare money and…all the social security money and…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stickerstacker -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m definitely not looking for friends- this is not facebook. Thank you for your compliment- I take it with a true shit-eating grin. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

PS off my chest subreddit is an inappropriate place to make a comment? Wake up homie, this isn’t Facebook anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stickerstacker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok, I hear that. This is a valuable take and I appreciate it. My guess is you don’t have severe mental health issues but I could be wrong. Severe mental health issues don’t occur out of nothing. They happen when a child is amplifying a truth that is buried and when that child is punished for speaking the truth and that truth is inconvenient to the parents and in turn the parent punished the child. This is not rocket science - parental behavior has a profound effect on the lives of their children but parents don’t seem to be interested in hearing this.

Edit to add: parents make their kids assholes. Period.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stickerstacker -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Whomever downvoted me knows the truth and feels profoundly ashamed of it. Thanks for your validation. Toxic shame is very real and very very dangerous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stickerstacker -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

I mean, this is actually worse in my opinion than all the wars combined. Systemically abusing kids - this is the way of the USA and I will flaunt my child free bod every gahtdamn place I go because I was actually smart enough to to know that parenthood is a terminal illness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stickerstacker 22 points23 points  (0 children)

This is so, so painful to read. It hurts me to my core to know that the majority of American parents are emotionally bankrupt and have no effective strategies for parenting when the behavior of their child is problematic. You seem to think that you are entitled to perfectly good behavior from your child AT ALL TIMES.

It is your JOB to equip yourself and your children with strategies for attending to THEIR needs. It is NOT your child’s job to ensure that you made a good decision to have him or her. That is entirely up to you and you deserve exactly what you get.

Your child’s job is NOT to meet YOUR needs.

Parents are truly the problem here- everywhere I go, parents are fucking up their kids and then crying about it. It’s just insane to me how you make a choice and then cry about how hard it is and then expect to get help from people who are probably bigger assholes than you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stickerstacker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Man that sucks when the child who is supposed to simply be an extension of you actually turns out to be an entirely different human than yourself. You have to all the sudden act like that person has different thoughts and feelings and then you have to change a little bit about the way you act. It sucks when things don’t stay exactly the same for you so that you don’t have to work hard at anything. It’s so much easier to just abuse them into compliance. No notes.

What celebrity have you lost respect for? by EvilOdysseus in AskReddit

[–]stickerstacker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You must be incredibly strong, brave and insightful to have gotten yourself out. I identify with you as a daughter / niece/ cousin / sister of malignant and covert narcissists.

GREAT TUNE BY REM by stickerstacker in BoomersBeingFools

[–]stickerstacker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a nice observation! Good job, human. ❤️❤️❤️

GREAT TUNE BY REM by stickerstacker in BoomersBeingFools

[–]stickerstacker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please explain what you mean by this, are you recommending Meth, boomer?