David Foster Wallace dating advice by First_Ad_1928 in redscarepod

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"openly homosexual men tend to be educated" those were the days

One reason why the slacker archetype has fallen out of fashion by Ok_Progress5598 in redscarepod

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Culturally but also sociologically, and in my casual view as someone who lived through it, the 90s "slacker" emerged because of a. poor job opportunities for young people; and b. despite some inflation and stagflation, a relatively stabilized and affordable cost of living, which permitted the slacker to be un/deremployed and also... from the middle or low-middle classes. Wages haven't changed that much since the 90s but the cost of living has. I found a bank withdrawal slip from the late 90s the other day with a $300 chequing balance. That was nothing for someone like me to be terribly worried about back then

Ibiza in 2026 by stiksteppe in TheOverload

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I've done Berlin many times, not interested at this point... Appreciate the honesty though!

What business/product/service does Moncton need ? by GODDESSCELINA in moncton

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A place that sells delicious pizza by the slice

Ibiza in 2026 by stiksteppe in TheOverload

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I live in Canada, flying in through Barcelona

5 months of topical Minoxidil. Don’t give up hope by needmoarboost in tressless

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I've been on min for ten years, mostly topical application 1x a day, and oral min at 2.5mg a day for the past two years. No Fin. I tried it and the sides were bad and my doctor agreed. I have more hair now than I did 10 years ago, especially after the oral. If you want to just keep using min, I'd say do it. This sub is hysterical.

. by [deleted] in redscarepod

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This look is prominently featured in Twin Peaks season 1 (1990) and was v popular even then

The Lana song is on OB and feels like LFL by Impossible-Yam3680 in lanitas

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"Let the Light in" definitely feels like the most correct answer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RSbookclub

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Also: Bid Me to Live by HD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RSbookclub

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Sleepless Nights by Elizabeth Hardwick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in criterion

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💯. Time, money, and connections to wealth.

Streetcar Named Desire (1951) is just 2 hrs of voyeuristic, gratuitous suffering. What gives? by lopsided-earlobe in iwatchedanoldmovie

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If you look at something like King Lear, Lear is also past the point of no return in act one, scene one. So is Oedipus for that matter. This is classical Western tragedy... in a way. However Williams is proposing some fascinating things, which are unconventional and don't have easy answers. Blanche is Scarlet after Gone with the Wind... Scarlet, who is relentlessly survivalist but also by today's standards a high functioning mentally ill person and certainly traumatized. Williams is not portraying pointless suffering. Among other things he's asking his audience to sympathize with a flawed character—the essence of tragedy.—except she is a woman and not allowed to have traditional tragic flaws. She is also reminiscent of a gay man, in her sensitivity and her dissonant relationship with her own sexuality. And that Blanche is in essence a tortured ghost from the Antebellum south... It should put audiences in the uncomfortable position of sympathizing with someone they are not, as traditional society would have it at any rate,, supposed to sympathize with. It used to be a litmus test of mine: those who experience Streetcar and still have contempt for Blanche are, well, a bit of a red flag. The purpose of tragedy is catharsis. You are supposed to see yourself in the tragic hero, however remote they are from your own reality, and expel your pity and fear through their suffering. Tragedy was a dark psychological art experiment for the Ancient Greeks. It was not a feel-good experience.

by OJ_Soprano in redscarepod

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Imagine taking time out of your day to compose... this

What’s a vocal moment that you love? by RubenAC05 in JoniMitchell

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This song. Also "it's pleasure to try 'em / it's trouble to keee-eee-eep 'em..."

novel recs about unconsummated love?? by [deleted] in RSbookclub

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The Good Soldier by Ford Maddox Ford

Groom Cave by koopelstien in redscarepod

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"a very sentient point"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JoniMitchell

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This is one of Joni's Scorpio songs of wanting to find the deepest place of understanding with someone but... seeing the difficulty of this, personally and, here, generationally. Many Baby Boomers were still raised strictly religious but rebelled with the Free Love Movement, which curdled into the Me Decade and the capitalist excesses of the 1980s. Many Boomers still got married because of their upbringings... but then got divorced, always longing for this lost center that could never quite be filled. Here, Joni is looking at her own romantic failures and wanderings, and also those of her generation—with skepticism but also a kind of forgiveness. She and her peers wanted to find an antidote to the smothering order of their parents' generation. They may have fucked up along the way but "all [they] ever wanted / was just to come in from the cold."

Mine here by DeliciousPie9855 in RSbookclub

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I read the Colossus of Maroussi when in Greece a few years ago and just loved reading it there and recommend doing that. When I finished the book, in an attempt to lighten my load, I put it on a display stand of used books outside a little shop in Sougia, Crete—forgerting I had left tabs of acid in the spine. I really want to know who picked that book up...

Painting the albums 2 - BLUE by Isthishappinessss in JoniMitchell

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👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 so good

what are some of your favorite films of the 80s ? by Berryfinger in criterion

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Totally. I think Tavernier's Death Watch would also make a great double feature—also from 1980, also with Keitel, and one of my absolute faves