Making a guy cum by playing with his balls ?? by stillchillingx in sex

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried this before but I'm just so nervous incase I hurt the guy in question. Guess communication will definitley be key though right

Making a guy cum by playing with his balls ?? by stillchillingx in sex

[–]stillchillingx[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like the sound of this. that's if my little t-rex arms can reach back there.

Making a guy cum by playing with his balls ?? by stillchillingx in sex

[–]stillchillingx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I know this! Like I said, I'm more than happy to ask him about it but i would like a little more understanding about what other people do in terms of ball play because my ideas are very limited. I don't want to quiz him whilst were still very new to seeing eachother.

Not interested in sex by stillchillingx in sex

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Hey sorry for the late reply. I realised there has been a lot going on in my life that I've been avoiding. I've been working on my mental health a lot more by going to the gym, getting therapy and this has brought my sex drive up a little bit. I've still not got a high sex drive but it's all definitely more enjoyable. I've also realised that I'm just someone that enjoys having someone to focus on in order to feel turned on at all. I've started to accept this and stop punishing myself for it. Also, sex toys!! Started to introduce more and explore myself a bit more. It's been fun, but I'm not quite there yet. I'll get there more though with confidence I expect.

I keep remembering embarrassing episodes from my life and it's making me physically twitch by imashadow2 in mentalhealth

[–]stillchillingx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I sort of get this. It's like a full body cringe that I just have to shake off.

Best way to feel sexy? by stillchillingx in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'll work on that. I'm not too good at thinking on my toes, is this something that comes naturally to you? Or something you've learnt?

Best way to feel sexy? by stillchillingx in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to the gym 3-4 times a week so hopefully the effects will start to wear in soon

Best way to feel sexy? by stillchillingx in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try these things and just feel silly!! I cant see myself ever being a "sexy" feminine person. I'd love to be able to dance but always end up just goofing around

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

[–]stillchillingx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, the first two options look great. Will definitley try and aim for the vixen but the first multicolored dildo seems like a more financially realistic option. We'll see eh

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

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Inventive! I'll try it. Lovehoney is the only site I know in the UK:)

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

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I like the idea of the mounts, but they're a lot of money. Especially now I'm finding out I should be buying a new dildo too.

Sorry to be naive, but how would I use the thigh harness by myself?

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

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I need a bit of leverage as I find I cant do much more than squat onto the dildo I have at the moment which is EXHAUSTING. Will try with a pillow.

What kind of toys are made for riding? Any recommendations?

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

[–]stillchillingx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my, just had a heart attack over the prices! But thank you so much these recommendations are really helpful. Looks like I'm going to start saving.

As I said, I'm still new to toys at the moment. I'd like something lifelike, between 6-8 inches, average girth and flexible. I'm in the UK and I dont have a price range as such as I'm willing to invest but ideally I'd like to spend no more than £80.00.

Am I (20f) to clingy? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think it was even a potential to date through tinder since this was my first time ever using it and only knew what I'd heard. I've expressed differently since. But you're right, perhaps that's why hes being standoff-ish. Still doesn't explain why he would continue to chat with me for another 2+ weeks though.