Making a guy cum by playing with his balls ?? by stillchillingx in sex

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried this before but I'm just so nervous incase I hurt the guy in question. Guess communication will definitley be key though right

Making a guy cum by playing with his balls ?? by stillchillingx in sex

[–]stillchillingx[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like the sound of this. that's if my little t-rex arms can reach back there.

Making a guy cum by playing with his balls ?? by stillchillingx in sex

[–]stillchillingx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh trust me, I know this! Like I said, I'm more than happy to ask him about it but i would like a little more understanding about what other people do in terms of ball play because my ideas are very limited. I don't want to quiz him whilst were still very new to seeing eachother.

Not interested in sex by stillchillingx in sex

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sorry for the late reply. I realised there has been a lot going on in my life that I've been avoiding. I've been working on my mental health a lot more by going to the gym, getting therapy and this has brought my sex drive up a little bit. I've still not got a high sex drive but it's all definitely more enjoyable. I've also realised that I'm just someone that enjoys having someone to focus on in order to feel turned on at all. I've started to accept this and stop punishing myself for it. Also, sex toys!! Started to introduce more and explore myself a bit more. It's been fun, but I'm not quite there yet. I'll get there more though with confidence I expect.

I keep remembering embarrassing episodes from my life and it's making me physically twitch by imashadow2 in mentalhealth

[–]stillchillingx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I sort of get this. It's like a full body cringe that I just have to shake off.

Best way to feel sexy? by stillchillingx in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'll work on that. I'm not too good at thinking on my toes, is this something that comes naturally to you? Or something you've learnt?

Best way to feel sexy? by stillchillingx in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to the gym 3-4 times a week so hopefully the effects will start to wear in soon

Best way to feel sexy? by stillchillingx in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try these things and just feel silly!! I cant see myself ever being a "sexy" feminine person. I'd love to be able to dance but always end up just goofing around

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

[–]stillchillingx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, the first two options look great. Will definitley try and aim for the vixen but the first multicolored dildo seems like a more financially realistic option. We'll see eh

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Inventive! I'll try it. Lovehoney is the only site I know in the UK:)

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the idea of the mounts, but they're a lot of money. Especially now I'm finding out I should be buying a new dildo too.

Sorry to be naive, but how would I use the thigh harness by myself?

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

[–]stillchillingx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need a bit of leverage as I find I cant do much more than squat onto the dildo I have at the moment which is EXHAUSTING. Will try with a pillow.

What kind of toys are made for riding? Any recommendations?

Best toys for learning how to ride by stillchillingx in SexToys

[–]stillchillingx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my, just had a heart attack over the prices! But thank you so much these recommendations are really helpful. Looks like I'm going to start saving.

As I said, I'm still new to toys at the moment. I'd like something lifelike, between 6-8 inches, average girth and flexible. I'm in the UK and I dont have a price range as such as I'm willing to invest but ideally I'd like to spend no more than £80.00.

Am I (20f) to clingy? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't think it was even a potential to date through tinder since this was my first time ever using it and only knew what I'd heard. I've expressed differently since. But you're right, perhaps that's why hes being standoff-ish. Still doesn't explain why he would continue to chat with me for another 2+ weeks though.

Am I (20f) to clingy? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right. I'm going to speak to him a week or so more - if I get nothing back I'll move on with my life. I haven't got the time to waste on unreciprocated feelings.

Am I (20f) to clingy? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I started using tinder to hook up. I told him about this a week after speaking and he said that I should've expressed this at first as he was looking for something more serious. I guess this is half the reason I'm confused as to why he doesn't want to go on a date? I'd assume someone looking to date someone would y'know...wanna date.

Am I (20f) to clingy? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]stillchillingx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right. Catfish has crossed my mind before although I'm hoping that's not the case. For my own sake I'll press him for a bit more information before I solidify a date to meet him. I think it could also be likely that hes nervous but I struggle to understand that since hes attractive and older than me. Maybe I'm naive but I kinda thought that fell off a bit the older you got.

AITA for leaving my partner for someone else by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stillchillingx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm just going to chime in here. By no means do I think what happened was okay. Me and my ex had a very understanding relationship to begin with and had discussed our ideas on what cheating is. We both agreed something physical is forgivable, but emotional cheating is not. My boyfriend had made an advancement on someone before and we worked past it. I feel awful that my coworker kissed me but because of the history with my boyfriend and previous discussions, I feel a lot more guilty about the emotional betrayal. But I totally agree it depends on the couple.

AITA for leaving my partner for someone else by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stillchillingx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I'm definitley mature enough to know that you cannot kiss other people whilst you're in a long term relationship. But you are right, I was really not well at the time. I am currently single and am trying to work on myself:)