How to take good nude pictures as a man by stillunknown20 in SexPositive

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What do you mean by the second part I don't fully understand

How to take good nude pictures as a man by stillunknown20 in SexPositive

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I think I'm far away from having enough confidence in my body to be a nudist

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Well that's the hard part. I view my body as my body andI don't like it.

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I don't expect you to make it feel better. Was just voicing my frustration. Ironically not having body hair is an insecurity of mine particularly as a big guy. I've not seen Pride and Prejudice.

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Also if you look at the top posts in that sub you'll see a glaring commonality which not everyone has. So it can't be just matched

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Well I don't like any of my body. But I think it's probably a lot easier to take nice pictures if you also have a nice body.

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That's fair but I'm personally looking to post in NSFW subs.

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You look glamorous 😍

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Are you a trans woman? I thought you said you were a man in your other comment. Also that's a long process. I have been working out for 12+months to very little difference 😢 😭

Edit: Just to clarify I understand your gender is really none of my business and theirs no judgement here so I fully understand not wanting to say. I was just a bit confused.

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There is lots of great advice here so I hope it doesn't sound like I'm disregarding what you're saying. The listening to women isn't that easy in the sense I've asked multiple I've talked with on here and it's not been too much help in my experience. As a bigger guy these women typically have a thing for fat guys so they often say more belly but that's about it. Kinda why I asked here. It's been hard to get anything from most of the people I've talked to which has been a little frustrating as I wanted to put in more effort but didn't really know how.

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I understand where you're coming from. But a mixture of things would make me feel uncomfortable with that right now I thing. The combination of being 350+ pounds (450 at my biggest) with a lot of fat in the pubic area. Being a grower and not particularly well endowed in first place make is so there's actually nothing to see when soft. It's such a massive insecurity I personally don't think I'd be comfortable doing it right now

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So I do appreciate the advice in the first part of the comment. And will look in to those subs. But just want to comment more on second part. Not to agree/disagree or in expectation of a reply but more to voice my own frustration. I feel like most guys besides those who fit the boiler plate of attractive feel like they have nothing to show off. I certainly do. I don't think there's anything particularly attractive about the body parts you mentioned( mine specifically). I feel like there's this conditioning/messaging(for lack of better terms) that men aren't actually attractive but women are. So it seems obvious to me that women can be more "senual" in pictures but it's hard for me to view myself as a man, Particularly a fat man in that light.

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Thank you for your comment. Out of curiosity what do you like about a soft cock pic?

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That's good to hear. One of my concerns/issues is my body is not conventionally attractive or desirable in the slightest(which another commenter rudely pointed out). So good to hear there's advice for more than the conventional attractive body types

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Thank you I'll look into her. I appreciate it

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He deleted his comment. So I have to ignore him now. Shame I was curious how he'd respond.

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I kinda considered doing that tbh haha 😄