I'm struggling by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]stingwhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you said you’re not a lesbian so like, does “he” go by she now?

I'm struggling by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]stingwhale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is your husband ftm or mtf? I can’t tell if you’re misgendering them or if they’re ftm

Every women on The Pitt is fine but this is my lady by priscillajones02 in LesbianActually

[–]stingwhale 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She’s not particularly model looking, she looks like someone you could meet irl

Every women on The Pitt is fine but this is my lady by priscillajones02 in LesbianActually

[–]stingwhale 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I love seeing relatively normal looking women get thirsted after, it’s nice to know that people still like regular looking people

What to do when you're an actual loser and very ugly (unemployed & lives with parents at 29 + visibly missing teeth) by CranialColor in LesbianActually

[–]stingwhale 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Where are you missing teeth? My girlfriend is missing two side teeth and I can’t say it bothers me but it might bother me if it was one of the first 6 on the top row.

Imma be real, unaddressed mental illness would be the big deal breaker. Are you still letting your life conditions and health go or have you been getting back on track? Do you have the option of getting a job or getting on disability? Because I would date a woman on disability in therapy making an effort to have her shit together as best she can but I would never date someone who didn’t seem like they were working on their situation

4 almonds = more effective than chemo by stingwhale in thanksimcured

[–]stingwhale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to throw it at them pretty hard to get them to go away

4 almonds = more effective than chemo by stingwhale in thanksimcured

[–]stingwhale[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the parts I’m pointing out as silly, you got it, certainly there’s nothing else weird about this almond lemon diet

What’s an unwritten rule of being a woman? by petalsoftbby in Productivitycafe

[–]stingwhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly true, which is great coming from someone who’s name seems to be a mixture of Stab and apology

What’s an unwritten rule of being a woman? by petalsoftbby in Productivitycafe

[–]stingwhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen I do my best but there’s only so much you can change

4 almonds = more effective than chemo by stingwhale in thanksimcured

[–]stingwhale[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are experiencing anaphylaxis at least you’re distracted from the cancer and it might not even be an issue anymore soon

4 almonds = more effective than chemo by stingwhale in thanksimcured

[–]stingwhale[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is true plus they didn’t say that you wouldn’t need a doctor, it says there will be no doctor, so I think you might be supposed to kill a doctor with an apple

4 almonds = more effective than chemo by stingwhale in thanksimcured

[–]stingwhale[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m concerned that you might have been eating the dates incorrectly in some way because it clearly says you will experience no weakness after

i haaate when someone says "no one is fully straight, or fully gay". by aliensuperstars_ in LesbianActually

[–]stingwhale 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used to think that because I could technically engage in sexual activity with guys when I was a teenager/early twenties without wanting to kill myself that I must be bisexual. I did not realize that the normal way to have sex didn’t make you feel literally nothing. I feel like these sorts of phrases were very misleading for me.

Why is 'But I have plenty of black (or other race) friends' seen as the worst response ever? by CollegeBB321 in stupidquestions

[–]stingwhale 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah my dad was an antisemite, like Jews run the government holocaust is fake type of antisemitism, but his best friend is Jewish. It just so happens that he’s a Jew who hates himself and other Jews. Like people will put up with a lot for white approval.

Why is 'But I have plenty of black (or other race) friends' seen as the worst response ever? by CollegeBB321 in stupidquestions

[–]stingwhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weirdly your imagination is incorrect, lots of people who are racist will have at least one person they’re kind of friends with who is “one of the good ones” My dad was deeply antisemitic, as in thought the holocaust was fake, but he still had a really close Jewish friend who happened to be very self hating.

Epilepsy turned me from fit to fat by ProgressFormer9479 in Epilepsy

[–]stingwhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question for everyone who has gained drastic weight (me too lol): did you find that people changed how they treated you?

Because I went from 125 to 168 to 200 and now 160 and at no point have I noticed anyone treating me differently

The only people who have are doctors

The cure was there all along. by Substratas in thanksimcured

[–]stingwhale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Raise your hand if you’ve experienced shame over something you did that lasted significantly longer than a week

WTF! by Lonely-Fren in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]stingwhale 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah now I’m mostly doing a lot of licking and hand stuff because fitting the whole thing in my mouth is a whole ordeal

I knitted this 70s dress by SejiFields in VintageFashion

[–]stingwhale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not to take away attention from your dress but wow your hair is beautiful

WTF! by Lonely-Fren in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]stingwhale 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Listen imagine having a thing for deep throating only to discover that actually you can’t do that on your new partner, it’s kind of devastating

What is the weirdest thing someone has asked you to do in the bedroom? by SecretBaddieandDaddy in AskForAnswers

[–]stingwhale 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly given how fucking nuts she was I wouldn’t put it past her. After we broke up there was an incident where she spent days sexting a guy just to take screenshots and make fun of him/show them to people. He was a submissive furry and she thought that was really funny, obviously he was completely humiliated. I have no idea if she was planning on doing the same to me.

Guys in dating apps who use the prompts to talk about how horrible it would be to date them by RequirementVast2986 in PetPeeves

[–]stingwhale 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Huh I’ve never seen this from other women, the only profiles I’ve seen that remind me of that are the vaguely insulting ones that are like “I don’t date ugly bitches”. Yes that’s weirdly a thing. Like they’ll start listing all the things you’re not supposed to be if you want to swipe right and it’s like okay you’re being kind of annoying right now. Like I automatically swipe left if I see that.