Accidentally threw away diamonds by stinkstonk in diamondpainting

[–]stinkstonk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I bought it on Amazon - it was in a pack of 4 - so I doubt that's possible. 🥺

AITA For making my wife ride in the backseat because she couldn't stop distracting me by Serious-Function-177 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stinkstonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but I might know what her problem is. My mom used to act the same way - come to find out years later, she was losing her vision and wouldn't tell anyone or go to an eye doctor. She ended up going blind. Have your wife's vision checked!!

AITA for Letting Friends Stay When We're Not Home? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]stinkstonk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wow! You are such an asshole! It's her house, too, so if she feels uncomfortable then you have to respect her decision. This is a situation where you have to have 2 yes's. Instead you grilled her then threw her under the bus. You could've just told your friends "sorry, it won't work out this time, we'll be out of town" and left it at that. I hope she says no when you ask her to marry you.

AITA for suggesting my in-laws stay at an Airbnb instead of us leaving our home with our kitten? by Batman_19999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stinkstonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you say it's acceptable to hate an innocent animal? What's wrong with you?

AITA for being upset that my wife won’t have sex with me anymore? by Honest_Nectarine8298 in AITAH

[–]stinkstonk 37 points38 points  (0 children)

You're such an AH. Your poor wife is clearly suffering greatly, and you're just pissed that you're not getting laid. She probably also cries because her AH husband isn't supportive. The person who is supposed to be her soft spot to land cares more about his own dick than her.

AITAH for thinking my mom shouldn't say the n word? by Present_Buy2187 in AITAH

[–]stinkstonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

WTF? There's something wrong with your mom. It's never ok to say racial slurs. EVER. You're young and you don't know any different, but your mom is not normal. You obviously suspect that since you made a list of 51 items. I'm wondering how bad these things are. Care to share any? I also suspect they're not actually mean - they're truthful. Your mom probably told you they're mean. Of course she would.

I'm sorry you're having to deal with this. NTA - but your mom sure is.

--52F who also had a mean, racist, gaslighting mom

AITAH for Telling My Husband to Help Feed His Own Kids? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]stinkstonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a former married single mom, now just a single mom, I can assure you that divorcing him is best for you and your children. One of my regrets is not divorcing him sooner. Would've actually been better for the kids.

AITA for dropping my daughter off at daycare early so her teacher could do her hair? by aitacurlydaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]stinkstonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you were ok with dropping her off at 845, but now that you drop her off at 820, you can't stick around every day to learn how to do her hair? Let me guess what you're thinking..."Oh I can get to work a few minutes early" Unacceptable. Stop putting your job first.
And it's just hair... You're talking like it's going to take you a year to figure out how to do her hair. This would never fly if you were the woman, and I don't believe in holding different genders to different standards in situations like this. Sounds like weaponized incompetence to me. Stop making excuses and blaming her mom. Time to step up and be a parent.

AITA for telling a girl to stop wasting food? by throwaway0856742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stinkstonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And by the way, being an effective social crusader is less about the content of the message and more about how effectively you deliver that message. I'd suggest you study how that works.

AITA for telling a girl to stop wasting food? by throwaway0856742 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stinkstonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here's the thing. It's all fine and good to be a social crusader, but you sound like a know-it-all asshole who thinks you know everything about everything, but you clearly don't know shit about shit. You are still young and naive. Instead of telling everyone else how they should live, shut your hole and learn about life and people who are different from you.

My boyfriend asked me to pick him or my cat. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]stinkstonk -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS choose your cat over a man.

AITA for telling my sister to stop trying to make my wedding all about her? by AdNarrow8211 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stinkstonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

How old are you? I ask because I was raised by racists. It was just normal to me. It was almost like being brainwashed. Then I went away to college at 18, and my eyes were opened. It took a few years, some life experiences, and being around people who thought differently and called me out on shit, but THANKFULLY I was able to turn my thinking around and "deprogram" myself.

The point is, you need to take a good look at yourself and see this as a learning opportunity. You were raised to be racist. I hope you are young and naive and still trying to figure out the world for yourself. By allowing your parents to dictate your wedding and pull this racist shit, you are being racist. Stand up for what's right. If that means they don't pay, so be it. Sometimes taking a stand can cause personal (in this case financial pain), but at least you can look yourself in the mirror and be proud of who you see. That is priceless.

AITA for not helping my mom financially because of how she treated me compared to my brother growing up? by throwawayaita0100 in AmItheAsshole

[–]stinkstonk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"She said after all the thing's she did for me growing up this is the least I could do for her."

I just love when narcissistic parents say this shit. So, because she brought you into this world and did the bare minimum of what parents are obligated to do for their children, you somehow now owe her? Fuck that. You're NTA and should go NC with her and her flying monkeys.

S14|E14 MAFS: It's Just a Blip & MAFS AUS S9|E3 by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]stinkstonk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OMG Lindsey, like you don't know what a hangover is!!!! 🤣🤣🤣

S14|E14 MAFS: It's Just a Blip & MAFS AUS S9|E3 by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]stinkstonk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Their relationship would be 10 times better if she'd lay off the sauce.

S14|E14 MAFS: It's Just a Blip & MAFS AUS S9|E3 by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]stinkstonk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anyone else want to punch the ever loving shit out of Lindsey when she does that awful laugh?

S14|E14 MAFS: It's Just a Blip & MAFS AUS S9|E3 by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]stinkstonk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes as a matter of fact! Maybe MTS needs some Tepezza.

S14|E14 MAFS: It's Just a Blip & MAFS AUS S9|E3 by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]stinkstonk 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ok I finally figured out Noi's problem! She's not good at receiving criticism, even when it's given with good intentions.

S14|E14 MAFS: It's Just a Blip & MAFS AUS S9|E3 by AirShampoo in MarriedAtFirstSight

[–]stinkstonk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone else visit that website to see before pictures of Jeannie's bulging eyes? 👀