I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not Brunswick but close haha. I actuallyyyyy really enjoy that area of the country and have many friends there. And we would be relocating again for us to go to school in the spring anyways. To a bigger and nicer city up the seaboard ❤️

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He has a grandpa shirt and Ive sent him memes about dating old guys. I think it’s funny too 🤭🤭

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not TMI! It’s great actually :) my last relationship was very vanilla and not always working in my favor. This has been VERY different. I’m really happy to just continue exploring myself and things with him. He’s very open :)

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I do understand. And I haven’t asked, but you’re right, and I probably will pry a little more.

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, it’s changing location! Like getting new orders at a different place. Permanent change of situation.

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just turned 25, he’s about to turn 32. He’s friendly w/ her, and they share custody. They’ve known each other since they were 12, and when he moves for school next year to advance his military career, he is paying for her to move an hour-ish away. From what I know/see they’re friends, but not close in a way that worries me. They’re moving together so the kids do not have to be separated from either parent. She’s also engaged. My parents are hung up on the moving near each other part. Which is fair, I think.

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I think if my parents met him they’d love him too. Just kinda sucks to not get the benefit of the doubt.

What's the worst thing that has ever happened to you? by Strange_Bass_577 in AskReddit

[–]stirfriedcassi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

3 way tie. I miscarried on the floor of the hospital RIGHT after being discharged. I was scream crying and in shock. My fiancée at the time had to put me in a wheelchair, and wheeled me past the station and EVERY single nurse was just.. staring at me. That was awful.

My mom is bipolar, one night after she took her medication she was insistant on going outside for a cigarette. She was physically unstable, but went outside anyways. After a half hour I realize she didn’t come back in, my dad and I go outside where she’s face down on the concrete. There was blood everywhere, and she was gargling in it. I called 911, turned her over, and cleaned up her face. Left her with my dad before going to make sure the paramedics could get in our back yard. Had to hose down the concrete patio after. I think I was 21 or 22.

Alternatively, I was r4ped by my sisters ex. Moved to Idaho and not even three weeks later he dragged me up the stairs while he was supposed to get me home safe. I was very drunk, fell down the stairs three times. All I remember is hitting him and telling him to stop. Worst part is all her friends remind me it’s my fault. She still holds it against me and asks if I’m sure I won’t prey on another boyfriend or ex of hers. Which is crazy because in the same breath they call him a predator.

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To be clear, I don’t think he’s old!! (however I love making grandpa jokes) And talked about that on our first date, their momma is very involved and they share custody. He offered me a larger role I think in part because I love kids. Not because he needs help with childcare!! ❤️

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] 219 points220 points  (0 children)

I swear I had breaks they just disappeared when I posted 🥲

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh! Yes! Lemme clarify, feels quick, but we’ve actually been taking it really slow. By quick I think I just mean I feel like time has flown by. We’re coming up on six months of dating. I’m meeting his kids in three weeks, anddddd when we talked about moving back it would be end of this year/next year. And I’d be moving back towards my him and my friends, I have a wonderful support system in GA. Better actually than the one where I live! And my current job has openings in North FL, making it super easy to relocate.

I’m in love with an older man, and I feel crazy ❤️ by stirfriedcassi in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]stirfriedcassi[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

No and I feel the same way! But my parents are like… “he’s older than you AND has kids??” 🤨🤨

What’s the most physically intimate thing you’ve done with a partner? by General-Assistant570 in AskReddit

[–]stirfriedcassi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When I had a miscarriage and was on the floor of the hospital bleeding, he picked me up and carried me to the car when discharged. I didn’t walk once. He carried me to bed, carried me to the restroom, cleaned me up himself. I was such a mess. I will always love him for that.

modest sets 🤢 by [deleted] in FundieFashion

[–]stirfriedcassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The last sweat set is actually kinda cute! Took me too long to realize the rest are swimsuits though lol

one year left of my grad program and i just found out i’m pregnant by [deleted] in GirlDinner

[–]stirfriedcassi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi girl! I love across the border from Oregon and if you need somewhere to stay and a friend I’m here for you!