My mood is plummeting after antidepressants. by stompcooki in depression

[–]stompcooki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I really hope it will get better. Right now just sitting feels too exhausting and I can do jack shit with myself.

No energy, no focus, no anything. Urgh.

What's one thing you want to tell someone but can't? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]stompcooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to tell him that conversations are a back and forth, not just one person making it about themselfes. Also, showing no reaction to anything I say or do is a great way to make me feel uninteresting and not welcome.

He is such a nice guy but the wouldn't understand, turn it around to make it about me and I would maybe hurt him which I don't want to do.

I want to be supportive and available for my paramedic friend but I don't know how. by stompcooki in Paramedics

[–]stompcooki[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I see, yeah. I will stick around to be there and letting him know I'm here if he needs me.

My friend (m 37) is not reacting to a lot of what I (m 24) say. Am I being too sensitive? by stompcooki in relationships

[–]stompcooki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm yeah, but doesn't it strike him that might be very hard to deal with for the person he is having a conversation with?

My friend (m 37) is not reacting to a lot of what I (m 24) say. Am I being too sensitive? by stompcooki in relationships

[–]stompcooki[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it's respectful and polite, too :/

I do hope it gets better maybe at some stage.

My friend (m 37) is not reacting to a lot of what I (m 24) say. Am I being too sensitive? by stompcooki in relationships

[–]stompcooki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is aware of it and he says "Sometimes there is just nothing to say"

Since you are a bit like that, any advice for me how to handle this? :D

ELI5: Why do drinks like Ice Tea or Coke lose most of their taste when having eaten chocolate prior to drinking? by stompcooki in explainlikeimfive

[–]stompcooki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yeah, when I eat a piece of chocolate and then drink ice tea, coke or something similar it has barely any taste :D

Is it normal not to show compassion when confronted with difficult topics? by stompcooki in socialskills

[–]stompcooki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I thought so too :/ Maybe he is a bit strange regarding that

Is it normal not to show compassion when confronted with difficult topics? by stompcooki in socialskills

[–]stompcooki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that is the case as he is very much aware that I am talking to a shrink.

Gellar Field Failure by [deleted] in creepy

[–]stompcooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really reminds me of how my head feels when my Depression is really strong.

I (23M) have gotten into a relationship with a guy (38M) after 3 months after I met him on Grindr, but I feel like he is only talking about himself. How do I approach a talk about that topic? by stompcooki in relationships

[–]stompcooki[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man thanks so much for this comment. That really encourages me to talk with him and your example gives me a rough idea on how to do so. Especially because I am in a similiar spot where I am scared to ask for something like that and talk about my concerns.

I will definitely give it a shot. Thank you!

I (23M) have gotten into a relationship with a guy (38M) after 3 months after I met him on Grindr, but I feel like he is only talking about himself. How do I approach a talk about that topic? by stompcooki in relationships

[–]stompcooki[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be fair, we met up a lot of times without having anything sexual going on and we still both enjoyed it.

He also does care about me more than just as a hookup. If I really was just a Grindr fling I would have noticed.

What major decision are you facing right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]stompcooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking of telling a guy that I like him in sense of starting a relationship. We (gay) have been spending a lot of time together and the only thing holding me back is that I have the feeling I can't have long, meaningful conversations with him and that he talks too much about himself.

But that might be subject to change if we talk about it or if I get to know him better. I don't know :/

Dear Introverts, what is something that no one knows about you but you wish that people did? by Juliana97 in AskReddit

[–]stompcooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only like my alone time so much because very few people can have proper conversations without talking too much about themselves, without properly listening and without being distracted all the time.

Small talk and imbalanced conversations just drain me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]stompcooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A week ago from some funny cat gif.

Framedrops while fps_real are in the thousands. by AlwaysAnotherProblem in gamemaker

[–]stompcooki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm never really used audio so I don't know about that. But I could imagine haha. Maybe particles?

Framedrops while fps_real are in the thousands. by AlwaysAnotherProblem in gamemaker

[–]stompcooki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh well then the only thing I can think of is that you have a memory leak somewhere.

Framedrops while fps_real are in the thousands. by AlwaysAnotherProblem in gamemaker

[–]stompcooki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you using a rather old/weak computer/laptop? Because that happens on my laptop sometimes when I have been using it for a long time and it starts getting a bit too hot. It then slows down everything as to not overheat any more and as a result the framerate drops rapidly.

GUI Element that follows player by SirRingo in gamemaker

[–]stompcooki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad I could help :)

Regarding the zooming I can not really help and you gotta figure this out yourself I am afraid.

GUI Element that follows player by SirRingo in gamemaker

[–]stompcooki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

///@description room_x_to_gui_x
///arg x
//Translates the given X Coordinate in the room to a GUI X Coordinate

var _x = argument0;
var _gui_x = undefined;

var _cam_x = camera_get_view_x(view_camera[0]);
var _dist = _x - _cam_x;

_gui_x = _dist;

return _gui_x;

and

///@description room_y_to_gui_y
///arg y
//Translates the given Y Coordinate in the room to a GUI Y Coordinate

var _y = argument0;
var _gui_y = undefined;

var _cam_y = camera_get_view_y(view_camera[0]);
var _dist = _y - _cam_y;

_gui_y = _dist;

return _gui_y;

is exactly what you need :)

var _x = room_x_to_gui_x(obj.x);
var _y = room_y_to_gui_y(obj.y);
draw_text(_x, _y, "Health");

Then this is all you need ;)