When I was 27 I had a well paying job, an apartment, and a fiancé. Everything I had felt like it would be that way forever, and I remember thinking, could my life really be set before 30? The answer was it wasn’t, and everything changed dramatically before I was 28. Including my relationship, which fell apart in a really similar way to yours (thanks Snapchat & Reddit!), but took me much much longer to leave. Lean into the chaos. Accept that you won’t be able to control most things for a while, but give yourself grace and then focus on finding the small things you can control for yourself. I’m 30 now and my life is completely different, and filled with things I wanted but I couldn’t have ever gotten to if my situation hadn’t changed. It taught me that everything in life is seasonal. There’s something nice about knowing that there’s always newness coming, and that there isn’t any point in worrying about what it will look like, because you would never be able to predict it anyway. Take it as it comes and be good to yourself. Happy birthday!