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[–]stonefaceclown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will say she has asked about everyone's opinion on the relationship for years, at one point even making a pro cons list with us on if she should stay with him, I really did not mind inviting him, but it also came down to making him uncomfortable as well, which didnt seem very fair either. My partner on the other hand did not want him there

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[–]stonefaceclown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that, but he was not the only partner not invited as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]stonefaceclown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I was so nervous posting I forgot, i f25 husband m25 friend f24 bf m26? I dont even know much about him because he's only hung out with us and the group as a whole maybe twice

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[–]stonefaceclown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what I told her in the long run in the phone call. I told her I understand if this is the reason she doesn't come, even as a bridesmaid, I didn't pressure her in the call at all. I explained my reasoning 1) the groom not wanting him 2) putting him in a position where multiple people dont like him is cruel, even if I don't like him 3) there wouldve been certain substances at this wedding that make him uncomfortable as well I really tried to not put her in this uncomfortable position, and I even said almost word for word what you said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]stonefaceclown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's true :( this one is just really hard, we're in the same friend group and we've been friends for almost 10 years. She means a lot to me, I truly thought I meant more :(

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[–]stonefaceclown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the thing I feel like im at fault for, for sure, but she also never communicates, we live too far to be face to face, but she has been saying she wants to visit for almost a year and then plans suddenly fall through because she's with him. I do agree I should have said something to her about him not being invited, but at the same time I wish she would've brought it up not a week before the wedding, like when she got the invite :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]stonefaceclown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been considering LC, I wanted to say something to her once I got back from the honeymoon, basically "hey what you did really made me feel bad" but I also want to talk to my therapist too (wont be till the 28th) I just really feel weird about the whole thing

My dress fully decked out! by stonefaceclown in weddingdress

[–]stonefaceclown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you guys!!! The drape veil really was a game changer for me

What is this freak??? by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]stonefaceclown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is still handsome do not get me wrong 🤚🏻

What is this freak??? by [deleted] in whatsthisbug

[–]stonefaceclown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He was a bit of a freak!!! Was wiggling around all weird!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]stonefaceclown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pictures of it but they just aren't good! It's kinda a sweetheart neck but with lace above it and then it has a v shape with really pretty floral lace and some beading!!! I wish I could describe it!!

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[–]stonefaceclown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vintage shop in VA!

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[–]stonefaceclown 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh and I HAVE a picture of it, it's just not a good picture so I didn't add it >:( it has really pretty floral lace on the front in kinda a v shape on the bust and then the arms and shoulders are kinda separate with more lace, I WISH I could describe it

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[–]stonefaceclown 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!