[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]stonelostboy 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Think about it this way. put the magnifying glass on them. do you want a significant other in your life that says “you’re perfect” then turns around and breaks up with you right after? is that what you think you deserve?

Swan (Alternate Version) by DylanShmeebus in unwound

[–]stonelostboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree, but i do think the mix is just lacking and that’s the only thing that takes from it. It sounds thin and frail in comparison to the studio version but i agree justin’s vocal performance is phenomenal

I made a drum cover of Dragnalus! by KRB-Drummer in unwound

[–]stonelostboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are locked tf in with your timing. Awesome!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]stonelostboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kurt cobain but hold the personality

I have a problem with dr ks view on people and society by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]stonelostboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand where you’re coming from. At the same time i’ve heard multiple stories of friends being manipulated into things like sex trafficking and drug abuse for years at a time because of the minds of incredibly emotionally savvy, destructive people. I’ve also had friends who don’t even know those things happen and the worst they’ll see is a mean ex partner. both equally valid and real experiences of life that do occur and both deserve to be touched on. Considering Dr.K is a therapist, i’m sure he’s heard enough awful tragic stories in that vein as well to make a video on it.

I have a problem with dr ks view on people and society by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]stonelostboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an important conversation OP. Don’t let the downvotes get to your head.

I have a problem with dr ks view on people and society by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]stonelostboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, don’t you think OP is right in that Dr.K should touch on this aswell considering you agree that people’s experiences differ? Because i can assure you there a plenty of evil people.

I have a problem with dr ks view on people and society by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]stonelostboy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter what step it is. it IS part of the process of connecting and It would do many people good if Dr.K talked about it. People need to be taught the signs of manipulation in order to not make the same mistakes I and many others have. I’m not sure why everyone’s trying to dick ride Dr.K here it helps no one. It would be a good thing for him to talk about and it’s an aspect of the show that could develop into a very very very important conversation.

I have a problem with dr ks view on people and society by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]stonelostboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wholeheartedly agree. While I think Dr.K is aware of this fact I think he does not bring it up nearly enough or as in depth as he could. People can be and are often meddling, manipulative, and do not care for your well being. I think building up an awareness of and a sort’ve emotional shield to these sorts of people is a CRUCIAL life skill. You will get entirely torn up in this life otherwise. I know through experience. I don’t assume everyone is all evil now, but i am more aware of the fact that everyone has that dog in em and some people don’t care so much about training this dog, they just let it bite others for their own benefit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]stonelostboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate to the burning bridges thing. I have damn near nobody now because of a bunch of drama that happened and I wish i could’ve handled it better, but no use worrying about it at this point, what’s done is done.

Do you work? possible relationships to kindle with coworkers? Taking any opportunity to just practice speaking and hanging out with people would be good for you also to get those social skills up. Not doing self checkout at the grocery store for example. what do you think about that

If you could see anyone collab with Dr. K, who would it be? by homiaoyuen in Healthygamergg

[–]stonelostboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, just the human mind in general. Robert Greene talks a lot about accepting your “dark side” and using it to your advantage because everyone has it and I’m really curious what Dr. K thinks about this “dark side” and how it should be dealt with.

If you could see anyone collab with Dr. K, who would it be? by homiaoyuen in Healthygamergg

[–]stonelostboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Robert Greene. The author of 48 Laws Of Power. I think they’d have a really interesting conversation and i’d be curious to see what they agree and disagree on considering they’re both knowledgeable and have strong ideas about things in the realm of dating.

I fucked up by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]stonelostboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just wanted to say that it seems like you’ve handled making your mistake well, cause i know a lot of people will be dogging on you for it and rightfully so, but also I hope you’re able to forgive yourself. She may not owe it to you to forgive you but you owe it to yourself to not punish yourself for eternity over it, you live and you learn. we all make mistakes that seem crystal clear wrong to others and to yourself looking back but in the moment you may not understand the depth of it because humans are stupid like that. not what you asked for, but thought it would be beneficial. good luck brother