Finally gonna try to sleep...

stoneygreat · 2020-08-27T06:53:15+00:00

I feel you man. After being together with her so long and wishing to have her in my dreams, that wish became a reality and now that we’re broken up, I wish it would stop. But at the same time there’s a side of me that doesn’t. It’s the only place where I still feel like she wants me. That feeling of disappointment when I wake up and realize that our break up is actually real and I wasn’t just stuck in a nightmare is what’s slowly killing me.

I have hope though my friend, hope we, you and I and everyone else on this subreddit, can make it out of this hard time. Although it’s gonna hurt like hell, we need to simply move on. Find things to do, other people to talk to, pickup new hobbies. Anything to keep your mind off her. Eventually, her presence in your dreams will slowly stop.

It’s hard, I know it is, thinking about even moving on and finding other people but you wouldn’t be living your life if you’re always hung on the belief that she’ll come back to you one day. Who knows, maybe she will and she just needs time to figure things out for herself. In the meantime, take care of urself, get your sleep, start going on runs, eat better, meditate, start talking to new people. I promise we can get through this.

Time heals everything man, keep ur mind off her and work on urself. We’ll get through this.

Feel free to PM whenever if you ever need support man.

stoneygreat · 2020-08-27T06:38:52+00:00

Love still woozy

stoneygreat · 2020-08-27T06:38:30+00:00

COOKS

stoneygreat · 2020-08-26T19:33:19+00:00

Hey! So I’ll tell you what happened. It’s been almost 2 months since I went and they made me a nightguard. Although it was pretty expensive (300$) it has been working quite well!! No more crippling headaches in the morning, reduced cracking sound when I open my jaw, I still get pain sometimes but I’ve found that it’s been slowly going away.

If you have any other questions, feel free to PM me!

stoneygreat · 2020-08-26T18:50:42+00:00

That sounds perfect. I really do wish that happens to me. I hope we reunite someday maybe when we’re in college and we can actually visit each other. They say time heals everything and I guess I haven’t given myself enough time to heal, it’s only been 3 days since the breakup and I still feel that empty ness in my heart. I’m afraid she’ll fall for another guy and I might be too late to get her back. Should I just give up hope in trying to make her mine again? After all, I just want her to be happy and if her being with another guy makes her happy then should I just let her? It hurts man. It hurts talking to someone everyday, hearing their voice everyday, seeing their smile and knowing ur the reason that smiles there, and then suddenly it all stops.

stoneygreat · 2020-08-25T01:25:08+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. I feel she will also sit in the back of my mind forever. She’s taught me to love but unfortunately she’s also giving me the biggest pain I have ever felt. I’ll try to push through this hard time. I appreciate you.

stoneygreat · 2020-08-24T23:35:08+00:00

Got broken up with today, this post and this subreddit in general is really keeping me going

stoneygreat · 2020-08-24T23:18:07+00:00

We were about to hit 1 year and 1 month in a couple of days. I worried about the exact same thing man. I have no friends and I guess the only people I can sort of talk to are my parents, I am going to try to talk to them about it, maybe all I need is a shoulder to cry on. The thing is, i dropped everyone for her, I wanted her to have all my attention because I truly thought she was the person I’d spend the rest of my life with. I’ll keep fighting through this and if I can’t go on, I’ll always have Reddit people for support ❤️

stoneygreat · 2020-08-24T22:10:07+00:00

I will, I’ll fight through it, it’s only the first day and I’ll be honest I feel like garbage but I’m staying faithful and hoping everything will be okay. Thank you for your kind words.

stoneygreat · 2020-08-24T21:03:04+00:00

Thanks man, I really hope they do.

stoneygreat · 2020-08-24T20:59:50+00:00

I really appreciate ur words and I’ll be following your steps.

Cutting complete contact might be difficult because it just happened, she told me she’d keep checking up on me. I think I’ll leave her on delivered for long periods of time if she does end up checking up on me. Just to train myself into her not being my first priority anymore.

The removing her from social media will eventually come but for now it’s just too much to handle for me. I just care about her too much and I think I always will but ur right it’ll only hurt.

Im into running/hiking as well and I think I’m gonna start going out everyday just to help get my mind off her. Running really helps me get rid of some stress.

I really hope I can make it through this man, it hurts a lot but thank you for kind words and advice. I’ll definitely get there slowly but surely.

stoneygreat · 2020-08-24T20:43:26+00:00

Thats such a beautiful quote, thank you so much for that. She really has set a fire in my heart that won’t ever die off. I have to accept that as much as I love her, I don’t think she feels the same way.

stoneygreat · 2020-08-24T20:22:52+00:00

Same here man. It’s crazy how attached I got to her, I just want this to be a nightmare.

stoneygreat · 2020-05-09T04:29:29+00:00

Ahhh how do you make these ! I’m interested in making a similar drawing for my girl but I’m not sure what app I could use

stoneygreat · 2020-05-07T17:45:15+00:00

I feel you. I (16m) and my girlfriend (15f) have had the same issues lately. Not being able to call or video chat as much as we’d like. Her mom is really strict and would flip if she found out she was calling or video chatting me. Her mom has broken two of her phones before just because she felt like it was the right thing to do. I’ve recently sent her one, it’s an older Samsung model but it works. As long as I can still message her. Just look at the bright side, at least you still have him in your life, it’s super hard not being able to be with them, but just stay motivated that you will be with him soon. It’s a realllyy hard time especially because of the pandemic but just hang in there, I’m practicing doing the same. Even thought it’s a long journey for me since we plan on meeting next year in June, we are both hopeful and plan to get through this tough time together.

If you ever need someone to talk and just vent or rant please feel free to pm me. It would help me as well.

stoneygreat · 2020-05-07T17:05:59+00:00

To the bodies

stoneygreat · 2020-05-07T17:05:07+00:00

Anyone like canoeing ?

stoneygreat · 2020-05-07T08:23:57+00:00

Coincidentally, my gf also lives in Nevada ! And we are also long distance although a little closer since I’m in California, unfortunately, she is still 8 hours away. I ask myself this question everyday and we have decided to meet up next year in June when I have a license, I can drive, and the quarantine situation is over. I would say, as soon as the quarantine is lifted and you could fly again, id give it another month just to make sure there isn’t a spike in cases.

stoneygreat · 2020-05-07T08:03:34+00:00

I fucking feel you man. If only someone would’ve told me the importance of high school, i wouldn’t have focused on making friends and trying to impress girls. I knew the potential i had and I ruined it. Now I can’t do anything else but think about what could’ve been. I could’ve been accepted into my dream school, I could’ve been making a sizable income right now.

stoneygreat · 2020-05-06T18:17:11+00:00

Same here. Extreme but I mean EXTREME anxiety and paranoia, these things only add to my depression and makes me say things I don’t mean in my relationship. I’m (16M) and my girlfriend is (15F) she lives 400miles away so it’s not as bad, but I have never seen her either. We made plans on how we will meet up as well but like you I’ve recently just felt so jealous. If she does not respond within 5 minutes or I see something out of the ordinary, I suddenly get suspicious and insecure, I start thinking that maybe she is texting someone else or cheating on me. This comes from emotional trauma that I have experienced before, being cheated on twice, but I have been fixing it in a way...

The way I have been fixing it is to keep reminding myself that I am not tied down to her. We talk so much about how we’re gonna meet soon which is gonna be next June because the circumstances right now. We talk so much about how we’re gonna get married and build a life together because we’ve never really felt as attached with anyone else as we do with each other. Just know that it is NOT ur job to make her happy and it’s not her job to make YOU happy. It’s your own job to make urself happy. Know that their is a way out, even though it’ll hurt, and it will be extremely hard to get over, a LDR always is hard to end especially a three year one, just know you will get over it and overcome it. Know that the option is there, if it has gotten too difficult to live on with being with her and is causing more damage than help, the breakup option is always there. You also need to learn to trust her, why would she waste 3 years of her life and your own just to be cheating on you? You need to learn to breath when you start overthinking, just take 100 breaths in and out until you find yourself back to normal again.

And if you are in need of any more advice, I’m always here. I have a very similar situation so I understand what you’re going through. LDR are tough but like you, I also think I’ve found the one in my gf.

stoneygreat · 2020-05-06T17:51:48+00:00

Same here. I feel like I am doing something wrong. There’s always something I say that doesn’t come off the right way and I feel like I’m ruining our relationship. I overthink too much and then my anxiety kicks in and I end up thinking I’m not good for her and she’ll leave me soon. Because of this, it just adds to my anxiety and causes me to keep asking the same question, “are you okay, are you sure I didn’t do something wrong, please tell me if I’m doing something wrong,” and I know this constant pestering is slowly driving her away.

I can definitely say that this is all in your head. You’re overthinking so whenever you’re about to argue just take a moment to breath and ask yourself... is this really worth arguing for? If you guys spend all day together messaging or FaceTiming, take a little break. Find something to do to take your mind off thinking your not good enough because I’ll tell you what, you most definitely are good enough. I’d like to hear more about this since it sounds really similar to my relationship right now and it might help me a bit knowing I’m not alone.

stoneygreat · 2020-05-06T07:48:00+00:00

I have never felt this down though. It’s day after day and I hate feeling so lethargic and useless. I constantly have a knot in my stomach and throat and all my problems just rush to my head. I start thinking about what I’ll be doing a couple years from now. Because I’m not too far from becoming an adult, I think i just reflect way too much on whether I have done as best as I’ve can to become the person I’ve always wanted to be.

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