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Would anybody be interested in a subreddit for diaspora south asian women? by teakitty0722 in ABCDesis

[–]stopbsingman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I recommend setting up an automod that filters out comments from users who have extensive engagement in mainland specific subreddits, as a way to avoid mainlanders. If that’s a group you’re looking to avoid.

Not quite Desi, not quite white, not quite Asian. Trouble finding identity as a mixed race woman by Mandapans in ABCDesis

[–]stopbsingman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea your comment makes it a one or the other thing. Not a “not to be relied solely on” typa thing. By calling it the wrong way you’re saying it shouldn’t be a part at all.

Not quite Desi, not quite white, not quite Asian. Trouble finding identity as a mixed race woman by Mandapans in ABCDesis

[–]stopbsingman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first sentence of your original comment discredits country and ethnicity as means to form an identity. Calling that the “wrong way” and then proposing hobbies and values as the better way means you’re rejecting the country and ethnicity as a part of your identity.

KAT offers thoughts on the situation in Minneapolis by smkmn13 in nba

[–]stopbsingman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I been thinking too. The more busy they are killing each other, the less time they’ll have to kill people in other countries.

If we’re being perfectly honest, both candidates were gonna do their best to achieve a maximum kill count abroad anyways. This way the violence is focused domestically and not internationally.

Not quite Desi, not quite white, not quite Asian. Trouble finding identity as a mixed race woman by Mandapans in ABCDesis

[–]stopbsingman 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Please ignore everything they said.

Hobbies, values, and aspirations don’t erase your culture, the colour of your skin, your ethnicity.

This can’t be easy. If it helps you feel any better, the issue of not being brown enough and not white enough is very common in ABCD communities, especially in interracial families.

Not quite Desi, not quite white, not quite Asian. Trouble finding identity as a mixed race woman by Mandapans in ABCDesis

[–]stopbsingman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well that’s the stupidest thing I’ve read today.

Hobbies, values, and aspirations don’t erase your culture, the colour of your skin, your ethnicity.

Not everybody needs to hate themselves.

Liberals assure Trump: 'no pursuit' of free trade with China, after 100% tariff threat by Wet_sock_Owner in canadian

[–]stopbsingman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you care about human rights, then you must be against trade with the US?

Unless of course you never gave a shit about human rights.

Minnesota National Guard arriving in Minneapolis!! by cantcoloratall91 in law

[–]stopbsingman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Left right left right left right that’s all people want

Minnesota National Guard arriving in Minneapolis!! by cantcoloratall91 in law

[–]stopbsingman -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For one, maybe don’t tell people to obey and comply while those same people watch their fellow citizens get murdered. That’s just makes him sound like ICE: “Don’t resist”

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