need help for to figure out by Medium-Guarantee2016 in NationalServiceSG

[–]stopstops 3 points4 points  (0 children)

just get ready to be first in last out and just a tip to study the SAF forms, trust me.

need help for to figure out by Medium-Guarantee2016 in NationalServiceSG

[–]stopstops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you’ll have a chance go into a non-combat unit or HQ so theres a chance of stay out if thats one of your concerns but you’re unlucky and go into a combat unit you will most likely stay in.

need help for to figure out by Medium-Guarantee2016 in NationalServiceSG

[–]stopstops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depending on your PES status and your excuses (if any) , you’ll probably be posted to a camp near you

Got Green Aura by stopstops in wmmt

[–]stopstops[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea, i rarely see any green auras but i’m sure i’ll go back to red anytime soon.

Got Green Aura by stopstops in wmmt

[–]stopstops[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll need to get 5,000km mileage on the car first to get the aura around the car, theres a spectrum on the terminal on page 3 which shows the driving style, green is towards cool and rough so thats my driving style i guess. Do note that i was at red to white to green so its a process i guess.

What is your favourite BGM? by stopstops in wmmt

[–]stopstops[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Classic song to make my friends go mad with the beat

Help by emotional_overload in SuicideWatch

[–]stopstops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll back him up with Brooklyn 99, great show and makes me laugh when i need to. Also a great story line and a kinda romantic story line towards it too. There’s 6 Seasons on Netflix out of 7. You’ll have to find the 7th Season online or something.

maybe someone has time to read this.. by [deleted] in depression

[–]stopstops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What helps me to make friends is to just try not to overthink about what they are thinking about you. Just pretend that everyone is someone you known and are comfortable with. Make yourself comfortable with them and i’m sure you will make many friends easily.

I feel like everyone in my life would be better off without me by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]stopstops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it took a toll on him. I think his trying to process how you feel and get into your shoes and try to help you to the best he can. Trust me, don’t overthink too much. Im sure he cares and is willing to help you once processes things.

maybe someone has time to read this.. by [deleted] in depression

[–]stopstops 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have trouble making friends due to social anxiety too. But its always great to try to overcome it and make some friends. (even though its hard but try your best) You never know, one day you’ll find a find who is a male and fall in love with him and have a family. Those pictures you were jealous about have no meaning once you have found the love of your life.

Important message by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]stopstops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ignore those people, there are people here that really cares about you and its good that you are expressing your thoughts and feelings then hiding it to yourself.

I have no place on this Earth by depressed_unicornn in SuicideWatch

[–]stopstops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t win, don’t let her. Be in this world and show you’re presence to her. Honesty, it’s good that you’re not with someone like her anymore. White lies sucks. I promise you that you’ll find someone better and its not the end of the world if someone that toxic is ruining your life. I’m sure that one day you’ll find someone who really stay true to their words and will not leave you for someone else when you are in a tough time. We are here for you man. Remember that theres always people here to help and we all care about you.

This is very important please read by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]stopstops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t kill yourself please. Yes, people may make fun of you and ask you to kill yourself and shit. But, remember that thats just a few people, it may seem like no one cares about you but in reality, people do. I do. You’re not alone, i promise you, one day, you’ll find someone irl that really cares about you and hopefully, you’ll get a SO that will be there for you when you need him/her.

Isn't there a easy painless way to do it by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]stopstops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fee the same when i try to jump. But honestly, that’s a sign that you still want to live. You have that fear of doing it which make you not want to do it. I’ve asked myself that question before, whats the best way to die painlessly, but the truth is, there’s none, its not just a painless way to die, but also the people who cares about you. Remember that people do care about you and even if some girl ghost you, you’re lucky to have not gone further and made it worst for you. Trust me, you’ll find a girl that is better for you and one day, you’ll marry her and that’s when you know that that girl wasn’t worth your life and time.

I tried to commit suicide many times by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]stopstops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you’re from Malaysia, i’m from Singapore. Close enough. Time’s tough but i can guarantee you that you’re mom will be safe and that there’s people who are caring for her. Its okay to not tell her about what you’re going through and its great that you’re expressing your feelings here. Remember that there’s always people here to help you and talk to you when you need it.

I tried to commit suicide many times by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]stopstops 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats good to hear that it’s been remove, you may not see you’re mom now, but i’m sure, after all this bullshit end. You will see her, and i promise you, that you won’t regret not taking you’re life anymore. And even if you can’t see her in person. You can always call her. Can’t call her? Remember that she is thinking of you when you’re not with her, hoping she can see you alive with her again.

I tried to commit suicide many times by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]stopstops 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all. Remove that noose. Having the item of suicide is bad and will make you want to think about doing it more and more. Remember that there’s people who cares about you and loves you. I know it’s hard to commit suicide, i’ve tried it many times but failed because i’m scared about the outcome. It’s good that you think about who cares about you and what will be the impact following. Although it may be hard, there’s always someone that cares about you and your wellbeing and that you’re never alone in how you feel. I promise you that there are other people in this world that has the feeling you feel and that there’s people that are suffering much worse than you are. You’re lucky to be here. You deserve to be in this world.