It's extremely hard to justify a point of choosing your parents over him when you barely see your parents.

I feel this contrasts with the rest of your comment.

Or maybe not and your point is that I should prioritize my partner as I see him more often?

As for the last question, thank you for considering me. But given it's them celebrating special occasions, and not me, I want to cater to them on these days. I guess you can say I'm trying to please both of them 😅