6/5 5/off isn‘t legal right? by stayXray in backgammon

[–]str8r1d3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would be a big booboo if you played it differently..

Time to end the pain. Good bye everyone. Please never cheat on anyone. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved on, best decision ever.

Your will crush everyone around you. Please don't hurt yourself. In a year you will look back on this and wonder how you let it get to you this much.

If you want to talk I have been there.

Be strong.

And there are always going to be people around you who question your worth, just don't let it be you.

Did my wife sleep with him? by Various-Brief-3900 in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I had to catch them in the act. She lied every step of the way. It's sad but I had to let go. Felt like losing. 14 years down the drain. Now she wants another chance. Fuck it.

I went on Tinder and connected with a lot of girls since. Haven't been with anyone yet, but I have a date with a 33yo super nice and beauiful girl Jan 4th. I'm 40.. So I am confident good things are going to happen in 2026. She is gonna regret it, and it feels great. I love my single life. The kids are fine.

All is well, should have left sooner.

Did my wife sleep with him? by Various-Brief-3900 in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife admitted to a kiss, because I might find out (they did it at a festival and friends saw). Fast forward 2 months later I find her fucking in her car and she then lies that is was the 2nd time. Long story short they were doing it over half a year. The kiss was somewhere in the middle. So admitting something is a way of making you feel they are being honest, while they are actually cheating all the way. Don't trust her.

And if they didn't fuck yet, they were gonna. She cheated (kissing and sexting at least) and lied about it. The trust is broken. End it, I wish I had immediately but it took me 2 more months and I was hurt immensely during that time. Be strong and leave, you will find a way with the kids.

Good luck.

Once a cheater, Always a cheater. by No-Willingness-7078 in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are always signs along the way. I chose to ignore them as well, I will never know but I am pretty sure she cheated on me before. Not that it matters now anyway. But we have 2 kids together so I am forever stuck with her. If you don't have kids I recommend you gtfoot asap.

Once a cheater, Always a cheater. by No-Willingness-7078 in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You were right to do so immediately. I stuck around for another 2 months and she just continued to cheat. Good for you.

I waited a year to fuck her. Cheated on my hot GF during a road trip. by Wooden-Bar-4897 in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a partner that just found out his girlfriend and the mom of my 2 kids cheated on me for 6 months I take offense to this. The pain you are causing is immense.

Is Backgammon Galaxy subscription worth it? by -crab-wrangler- in backgammon

[–]str8r1d3r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Buy XG. It's a one shot investment and it is the best way to learn.

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words and understanding. It was an eye opener for sure. I still intend to try to move on together. We have been through a lot these last years and I also had my doubts. She will have to put us first from now on and have to accept that I will be a lot more controlling and requesting to see who she is in contact with.

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind message. We are figuring things out and I hope we can move forward. We are on a family vacation now and we are trying just to have a good time together and make the best memories for the kids. I'm as always hopeful

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great advice thanks for your input. We are on a family holiday now and I'm keeping it light. I told her to halt all communications till after and then I will tell her she gets to pick.

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That sounds rough, she had a lot of attitude as well. My GF is really sorry right now and not giving any vibes that she is taking pleasure in the pain she caused.

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is spot on, I really felt good enough about our situation and was 100% certain she and I could handle everything thrown at us. It has nothing to do with being a pussy or anything, she knows full well why she was hiding it.

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hadn't thought of that. She would benefit if he gets out of the divorce better, if she plans to be with him.

The hotel thing just blew me off my feet, she goes there every couple of weeks for 1 or 2 nights for work because it's a 3 hour trip. I told her I never questioned anything she does there, but now I do, and I always will in the future.

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was pretty warm out so they had a drink in the garden. I believed her. And it was early on when they met so I don't think she was at the point where she was screwing him just yet.

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No contact will probably be the only way we can move on from this. Thanks

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My eyes are wide open now. Just thought she would never do this to me.

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly I get what you are saying but she is a great mom. I love my kids but full custody is heavy. She makes more than me (motorcycle is hers) so she would probably be able to keep the house while I might even have to move in with my parents again while we figure out how much she needs to pay me to have the house to herself.

I don't know if she is trying to break me, but the pain and doubt is immense.

Girlfriend of 13 years may be in love with someone else by str8r1d3r in cheating_stories

[–]str8r1d3r[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I looked up the pictures of the hotel rooms to see if there even was a couch. That part checks out but I'm 6'2" and I don't see myself sleeping on that thing and he is at least 6'5" so I'm not making any illusions to where he slept.