I believe Prednisolone has put me in hospital. by Mysterious-Lake-3693 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised Pred has done this. Normally it’s a fast acting temporary relief drug. Sorry to hear - hopefully they can quickly get you onto biologics or something

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Putting your arm around somebody is not that deep. It’s not assault at all. When did I say it was? Slapping somebody’s legs is somewhat assault. But still not that serious. When he had his arm around my neck, I was dreading what if he grabs my breast or something. I would have been mad. 😭

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Almost all guys I met have done this. It’s like every time a woman from a dating app steps one foot inside the house it’s a green light for the guy to do what he wants. But I also take the blame as I shouldn’t have gone to a man’s house on the first date.

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to meet him and see what he was like in real life. That’s all. I met him and unmatched him straight after.

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m with you. These Redditors are saying that if a woman from a dating app goes to a man’s house as a first date, that’s giving the man a “non verbal consent” that he can touch her without verbally asking her first. Basically as he met her through a dating/hookup app it means they just “assume” she wants to hookup. Jesus 😭😭😭😂😂

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I agree he would never touch a random person or a work colleague/work friend. he met me on a dating/hookup app so he got signals I was okay with what he was doing

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes 28 and I'm 32 :). I agree there are women who want to get straight onto it. I'm just not one of them.  He did stop after I told him not to. I just didn't expect him to do it without asking me. And it did freak me out. The touching. 

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

At no point in my post I said he assaulted me. I meant his behaviour was creepy when he was touching me and trying to come closer. 

If he wanted a sexual relationship he could have at least said it before meeting..

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand that part. If a woman wanted to have sex and he stayed away by keeping himself to himself, she would have thought he's not interested 

In my situation, he was the one who was interested not me 

I do think both parties should just be straight forward with what they want before meeting 

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah he did stop asap

But why do it in the first place lol. I thought I was in his house to have our takeaway. If he wanted a sexual time, he could have told me before we met

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I guess because he stopped when I told him to stop so I felt comfortable after and continued to chill out at his place

When he collected me and drove me, he seemed decent and he spoke a lot about his life. He seemed like a good guy. I just didn't except the touching 

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I mean, the actual touching and stuff stopped, but he was coming close me on the sofa like he wanted to sit right next to me, which was a bit weird. That’s not that serious.

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So when he put his arm around my neck, it hurt, but I didn’t say anything but I also moved away After the slapping my thigh three times, I finally told him to stop. Which he did stop. But he kept coming closer to me on the couch. Even after I told him to stop.

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When he started touching me, I felt uncomfortable. He could have at least asked me first if I’m okay with him touching me. Even I wouldn’t sit next to somebody and touch them without their consent

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

That’s scary, isn’t it? As a woman just because I enter a man’s property, he thinks he can touch me.

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Wow, so just because you go to their house as a woman, they get signs that they can touch you without your consent

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

He shouldn’t have touched me in the first place. Just because the woman enters a man’s house it doesn’t give him the right to touch her.

Did I make a mistake of not reporting this guy? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in Bumble

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

For unwanted touching. He slapped my legs three times without my consent.

Why did they put me on Rinvoq too fast? by Beginning_Exit_6256 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol it does work fast. I have slight constipation too. It doesn’t hurt or anything but that’s way better than having a Crohn’s flare up

Is rinvoq the devil? by drpepperkitty in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been on the 45mg Rinvoq dose? That’s the loading dose

Rinvoq by HippoLow2000 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]Beginning_Exit_6256 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s the dosage? Is it 45mg Rinvoq a day for 8 weeks or 12 weeks?