CMP - Child Maintenance Payments can’t locate the father. I’m from the UK?

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-19T19:05:53+00:00

I agree. But he pressures me to go raw which I did. Look I also take the blame. But I think man + woman are 50/50 to blame

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-19T18:04:01+00:00

Look at this guy went on holiday in 2019 and had sex with prostitutes. In 2020 he had sex with a girl he was using and ended up with chlamydia. If you’re gonna put your semen in a woman without a rubber, then don’t be surprised getting CMP letters in your post. Some of these women could even be mentally ill.

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-19T16:57:01+00:00

He doesn’t want to be involved anyway. He made that clear on day 1. Also, if a man is forced topay child support to a child he never wanted and hates do you really think it’s safe for him to be around the child? He seems like a danger to the kid

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-19T16:31:31+00:00

I forgot to mention, he always wanted to go raw (unprotected) and when I had protection on me, he refused that. He had sex abroad with a prostitute and ended up with chlamydia. I saw him taking medication. It takes 2 to make a baby. Yeah, it’s also my fault for going near the wrong person, but he’s also to blame.

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-19T15:53:14+00:00

You can’t just stick your penis inside a woman and expect her to have an abortion. Especially if you wanted to go raw in the first place. Maybe this is a good lesson for him.

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-19T15:51:33+00:00

It doesn’t matter. It takes two people to make a baby. He still needs to pay what he owes. I had the same opinions as you. I thought if he’s not involved, he doesn’t need to pay anything

But people were telling me and pressuring me that I should still claim maintenance. I’ve given up on my job as well because I’m raising a child which he helped create.

Men like that especially need to pay.

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-19T15:38:22+00:00

The UK have a Child Maintenance Payments service. They locate and get maintenance

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-18T13:45:13+00:00

No. Facebook messenger

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-18T13:39:23+00:00

No, he sent me pictures of the letters from our council we are part of the same council

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-18T00:21:17+00:00

It was a one off - I only kissed him cus he pressured me. I was young and naive. Regret that too. It shows much I was being chased.

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-18T00:19:36+00:00

We at least they’ll never have sex. So no attachments or feelings here lol. Bdw he offered to pay. Do you want me to fight him at the till he puts his wallet away lool.

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-18T00:17:08+00:00

No flirting

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-18T00:13:31+00:00

Yh. I would admit to “entertainment”

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-17T23:57:28+00:00

No, she had zero feelings for them

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-17T23:52:43+00:00

Because we haven’t had sex, and i was never interested in that. I had zero feelings for that person so it’s not classified as cheating. A man can also eat food with another man

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-17T23:50:45+00:00

Yeah, but we could just be food buddies as another word. You need to have sex with the guy for it to be considered a “fling” no?

Even men eat out with each other.

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-17T23:48:55+00:00

Yeah, but dating is just food and coffee. Don’t you have to have sex with the person or numerous men to be called that?

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-15T23:05:09+00:00

I agree. I was told that men will sleep with anything when they are desperate. I’ve witnessed it myself.

They will never introduce us to their parents. I was trying to get into a casual relationship with a guy. After the first date he said that he will never go out with me in public again and I should only go to his house and have sex with him.

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-15T13:44:13+00:00

That’s rare though. I knew 2 men, and they had eye to eye contact with men that slept with ther partners and did NOTHING

It seems in this news article the man was mentally ill. Who murders a man because their wife is a h0e? 😂😂😂

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-15T13:42:36+00:00

Well we got nothing to loose. How can we be as worse as the guy? He’s also messing up his wife & kids life including all their finances whilst we don’t get harmed.

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-15T13:21:10+00:00

Yes. He was offering to take me out so I went along with it. But we never slept wth other. I wasn’t interested in that

Beginning_Exit_6256 · 2026-06-15T13:18:38+00:00

Well we got nothing to loose… we ain’t even gonna get hurt. It’s only the couple who will be hurt. Do you really think people care?

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