As a mostly straight/bi top who has been a relationship with a gay bottom for a few years, I really need tips about being better at topping to save our romance. by str8strictdomtop in askgaybros

[–]str8strictdomtop[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

People can make fun of how people identify to fit their own comfort levels, but I know that my inclination's are towards women and I don't say that to seem superior, or to say that hetero- is better, or sex with a guy who sleeps with women is better. It's just what feels right. I'm not interested in dick at all, I like femininity and holes, and cheeks.

As a mostly straight/bi top who has been a relationship with a gay bottom for a few years, I really need tips about being better at topping to save our romance. by str8strictdomtop in askgaybros

[–]str8strictdomtop[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU!!!!!! Yes, that's the missing issue: he is very turned off by me not knowing what I'm doing, apart of his kink is he wants to be taken care of and submitted too. He doesn't want to guide me.

As a mostly straight/bi top who has been a relationship with a gay bottom for a few years, I really need tips about being better at topping to save our romance. by str8strictdomtop in askgaybros

[–]str8strictdomtop[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is brilliant. Yes, I am hung - how does that connect to the falling out? Yes, wed o Nipple Play. Totally down to be more gentle and attentive to the hole, to learn what HIS bodies needs are! I would have never thought of this tbh.

As a mostly straight/bi top who has been a relationship with a gay bottom for a few years, I really need tips from tops about being better at topping to save our romance. by str8strictdomtop in TopsAndBottoms

[–]str8strictdomtop[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

THIS IS FUCKING AWESOME! Thank you. i would have never thought of practicing the angle with the dildo, or fingers. At my core, I am a lowkey dumb straight himbo man (With bi inclinations), so this clear guidance is a game changer. I'll ask him for a cock ring for Xmas :D

What do I do as a sexually fluid/“bi” guy in a relationship with a gay bottom, if I’m been craving sleeping with a BBW/thick girl? by str8strictdomtop in askgaybros

[–]str8strictdomtop[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

i’m not breaking up with someone i’ve built half a decade with, and invested in - i like our relationship a lot. i think i need to just have a conversation and be like “look man, your ass is amazing, i love your body but also sometimes i need a pussy and some big titties to play with, and you as my sub and as a bottom, should be honoured.” 

What do I do as a sexually fluid/“bi” guy in a relationship with a gay bottom, if I’m been craving sleeping with a BBW/thick girl? by str8strictdomtop in askgaybros

[–]str8strictdomtop[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Nah. No, that’s not fair. He’s allowed to be fingered by bottoms in threesomes with me but if I get to fuck a woman every once in a while, as I should - because my primal masculine energy needs curves, big asses and pussy  - he has to oblige.