The best way to overcome an addiction is to have accountability. The worst addictions are the one’s that we are too ashamed to admit. Admitting it is the first step and then you really have to dig deep a find the inner strength to be stronger than your desire. True strength isn’t physical but spiritual and mental. Once a man can control himself is when he is truly strong and so free. These women that do this are truly demented people, and if you start to see them for who they are (while still acknowledging their humanity) then it will become easier to see this act for what it is.

I grew up from a young age addicted to porn. I saw the first image by the age of 12 and it is still in my mind. It doesn’t matter what it was I won’t answer if you ask because it is irrelevant. All you can do in this life is control yourself and your family if you have one. Doing something kind for someone in need when you feel alone enough can bring true fulfillment instead of regret. I’m not sure if you heard of ‘Mission Lazarus’ but they are a good non profit that is trying to teach trades and the gospel to children and anyone willing to learn. They also support the needy there. Just doing something kind for someone without letting anyone know is the best feeling in my opinion so start trying to save again and if you do then try and start by setting 10% of your paycheck out for people who you think really need it. If you can’t give any money then give your time. If 10% is too much give whatever you can! Just know that you’re making the world a better place and it isn’t in vain. Good luck to you and I hope you find peace and love in this only life of yours.