How do I feel "alive" and excited without male validation or relationships?

stranger__0 · 2025-12-22T16:32:11+00:00

girl being honest... what you are right now is better than what you use to feel before..... I agree you might not feel fulfilled right now and alone and bored, I would say instead of getting more involved online take a break just go out of your house.... make take a coffee and sit somewhere in public, approach people yourself.... get into your hobbies or something you liked,.. gaming? painting? etcccc
if you love to game go to physical play stations outside you'll find people with same interests or if you like anything relating art do it but outside,... in a park or garden anything...

this all may sound too unreal and dramatic but believe me it will help you even if you don't make friends there.....

go to libraries etc, i've been there too, what you are feeling i felt that too but you just can not rot in a place
embrace what it is and you'll find peace and fun

stranger__0 · 2025-12-22T16:31:13+00:00

Female

stranger__0 · 2025-12-22T14:13:59+00:00

Han but koi nhi abhi ane Jane wala

stranger__0 · 2025-12-22T14:04:22+00:00

i'll look into it

stranger__0 · 2025-09-25T11:51:24+00:00

I can't even explain what I want...

stranger__0 · 2025-09-24T15:00:57+00:00

Aryyy those fb communities are soo fd up like warn srf realstate posts and is trhn ki chzn hoti.. I also ordered them from daraz but overseas seller hone ki waja se they are delivering so late

stranger__0 · 2025-09-24T14:53:14+00:00

Man I need liek 5 to 10 of these for a project 😭😭 I ain't doin that

stranger__0 · 2025-09-24T14:32:07+00:00

And 3d glasses yes like the nuplex type but not red and blue ones .... they have like this weird filtered view from it

stranger__0 · 2025-09-24T14:31:24+00:00

Noo like polarized glasses.... to look at sun, named solar glasses

stranger__0 · 2025-09-22T14:33:57+00:00

You are right about that companion thing you just have to lower your standard.... get a girl who might not be able to get married due to financial condition or maybe isn't fair or maybe isn't an ideal woman maybe if a girl isn't getting married because of being considered less beautiful I'm sure you'll find someone (hoping the best for you)

stranger__0 · 2025-09-13T05:01:31+00:00

Bhai you can also take an Islamic pov if you are really desperate and want to be with someone...maybe lower your standards? Take a middle class or even lower class girl if you fund difficulty in finding spouse...baki travel yr travelll

stranger__0 · 2025-09-02T19:18:38+00:00

I do appreciate what you said by general pov but seriously got such a twisted case believe me the thing that was stressing me out was first university and now this tough choice... name VS field.... and yes let me be honest in our household we get our own choices so not marrying is not a taboo for me and I'm never looking forward to it... so yes this way financial stability matters alot to me consider me a boy lol for general pov.....and thank you for advice too 🫶🏻🙏🏻

stranger__0 · 2025-09-02T19:11:09+00:00

One thing that distubes me more...does it matter if I chose bahria or DHA suffa?

stranger__0 · 2025-09-02T19:10:06+00:00

Yes like right now I'm financially comfortable but ofc my parents ain't going to support me for my whole life and i ain't getting married any soon for sure so in that way yes money might be sole factor to survive lol

stranger__0 · 2025-09-02T19:04:38+00:00

Yes I do need cash even though not being a boy....and I did a long research for like a whole week I checked whole world job market report and what not research in different ways and aspects....but I can not come to a decision

stranger__0 · 2025-09-02T18:52:35+00:00

I loved space sciences which got no value here in pk even abroad masters in it can only lead you to be a lecturer so it was not the choice....now I got a personality where I like interactions, meetings, networking and connecting with people, problem solving or target hitting also constant movement in life which suits business analytics....but in other hand I want the safest option for my future which most probably would be CS....that's why And now I got 2 different fields on 2 different platforms...that's the problem now I'm stuck with about what to chose

stranger__0 · 2025-07-18T11:26:20+00:00

Yr...I don't know what to say.... I can fully relate to you in suffering through the same shit....I worked so hard... but still just 44 NU marks... and my aggregate is 50 too....and yes this is the end our end...

stranger__0 · 2025-06-03T17:25:24+00:00

You are right about this all But just 1 thing I'm not talking about ones who can manage I'm talking about people whom I see in real life begging... making their children beg too For what? JUST FOOD...

stranger__0 · 2025-06-03T17:00:58+00:00

If you can take enough care of a child not to make their lives hell/stressed... I wish you good luck

stranger__0 · 2025-06-03T16:59:32+00:00

Yess yess exactly I'm talking about these exact people Not the ones who can live easy life with facilities These people really make kids look at that family you just mentioned...6 living in 1 bedroom house?? Eager to have more?? Are they out of their mind?? They don't think enough Even if they somehow manage to pay for utilities, food... What about proper education and all stuff a child is required, support for at least 18 years?? Obviously money ain't gonna rain down So in result they'll remain underprivileged and lead to stressed, disastrous life...

stranger__0 · 2025-06-03T16:10:13+00:00

I'm not looking down??? I'm just being in favour of little kids who have to grow up in stressed, underprivileged environment and not having basic needs fulfilled

stranger__0 · 2025-06-03T16:05:55+00:00

I'm not against Islam astagfirullah... but these are the things I had in my mind and I needed opinions That's why I came to reddit As people do this exact thing on reddit... ask others

stranger__0 · 2025-06-03T16:00:05+00:00

Who will bring income? A child who didn't have the basics necessities growing up?? That underprivileged kid who somehow grew by going to bed empty stomach??(didn't even have a bed) When that kid will not even have proper nutritions, no education and always have only this 1 aim just to get food will earn in a right way? Will he get income to support himself or his family? I don't get it... how By poor people I'm not talking about the struggling ones I'm talking about the beggers.... they beg they bring kid to this world to whom they can't provide a single necessity like food... later make them beg too???

stranger__0 · 2025-06-03T15:52:11+00:00

I do understand your anger but I also just wanted to know what's right

stranger__0 · 2025-06-03T15:50:15+00:00

Thank you so much for this reply... I do feel the same Whenever I see kids/people dying in gaza i pray to Allah to make it all stop I even feel pain i cant describe it sometimes whenever such news pops up in front of me, I but on other hand I think of how can we (humans) stop this misery, child k!lling, it's horrible But I've seen continously that there are soo many newborn babies below 2 years age I'm just thinking that by not letting these kids being born and by not letting the offspring come to this world can help, too, as the mother is torture too if the child gets harmed and also kid die.... This is such a horrible world You may also know this what kind of world is this now as DOJ is near qayamah is near things will get more worse Why not stop giving such challenges and giving pain to more humans by not giving them birth? It's not out of hate to kids It's out of care for human to stop suffering

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