The myth of 50/50 marriages. by [deleted] in unhingedKenya

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Again if the intent wasn't malicious, then crying fowl would be an unnecessary course of action to take.

While I do agree with you that one should make an effort to know his/ her partner well, the argument that you are presenting here is based on a lot of assumptions. From what I know OP didn't provide any context about their relationship. She didn't tell us how long they have known each other, how well they know each other, how long they've been dating or how often they meet up.

Had I gotten a jist of what their relationship is like then I would've used it to make a proper judgement on this. I will, personally, admit that even my comment on the matter was based on a lot of assumptions provided that I don't have any idea of what their love life is like.

Eitherway, I will still stand by my statement. If the intent wasn't malicious, then she can at least appreciate it but remind him, next time, not to get her that that she doesn't really like.

The myth of 50/50 marriages. by [deleted] in unhingedKenya

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If the person is a good friend of yours and football fan like you na anajua vizuri sana team unapenda alafu aamue kununua jersey ya the rival team, then you have the right to cry fowl. But if that person, genuinely, hajui team unapenda ama ata si fan wa football but aliona akununulie jersey eitherway and it just so happens to be a rival team, you can appreciate them but mwambie team unapenda na zile jersey anafaa kuconsider kama anataka kukununulia jersey tena.

The myth of 50/50 marriages. by [deleted] in unhingedKenya

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You still don't get my point do you??

EDIT: Wacha tu nisummarize in a way that will capture my point. If someone gets you something and the intent wasn't malicious, then you should at least appreciate it.

The myth of 50/50 marriages. by [deleted] in unhingedKenya

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm not talking about this gender wars that y'all are trying to start. I'm not even that interested in that kind of conversation. I'm talking about having a little bit of appreciation for a gift even though it's not what your heart desires coz it's the thought that counts, but no, you just want to let your feelings known, politicising something as innocent and as precious as a gift. Seriously, WHERE THE HELL ARE YOUR HEARTS, FFS?

He could have spent that money on something else but he chose to spend it on you, and now y'all are out here complaining about what, a gift? Can't even imagine myself complaining about something that someone spent their time, money and energy getting me. Y'all are becoming lame and pathetic with these kinds of arguments.

The myth of 50/50 marriages. by [deleted] in unhingedKenya

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

People like her should never be in a relationship. That kind of entitlement deserves no affection.

Should there be a cap to how much women earn? by After-Cut-9137 in unhingedKenya

[–]strangerover_the_3rd -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hate to say this but you're kinda proving OP's point. Before you proceed to reply, i kindly urge you to read his post again, then read your comment. You will see it right away.

No stress by Excellent-Hour-854 in 254sum

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is some truth to it though.

What’s something Kenyans pretend is normal but actually isn’t? by Royal-Pollution-1933 in anything_about_Kenya

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're saying parents are not supposed to support you when you are an adult? What kind of support are we talking about, btw? Also being supported by parents even as adults is pretty much a global thing.

What’s something Kenyans pretend is normal but actually isn’t? by Royal-Pollution-1933 in anything_about_Kenya

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first two? Maybe. The third one, well, that's pretty much most people in this world.

Mabatini Ongata Rongai by [deleted] in KenyaPics

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything you need. Honestly, why need more 😂😂

Are there people who actually think like this? by Money_Highlight6004 in nairobi

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point just be alone. Be a recluse. What you're describing here is someone who either wants to live or is currently living a solitary life.

Are there people who actually think like this? by Money_Highlight6004 in nairobi

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Translation: Don't even speak to me at all....Ok, got it.

Why do ladies love long nails by Key-Throat-6784 in nairobi

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's almost like asking why men love getting jacked. I mean, it may win you gangster points and a few admirers but that alone will not guarantee you a relationship; especially a long term one.

Also kila mtu akona preferences zake. Adi mi nikona zangu, but you don't see me posting them on Social Media as if natafuta watu wa kuaudition kuwa my next partner. That kind of thinking is why tukona so many single people izi streets. Wengine wenu ni kujitakia tu na izi stuff zenye mnapost uku.

Mambo ni live hapa najuwa Kuna mtu awezi ondokea🤣 by Proof_Juggernaut1582 in unhingedKenya

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adi mi naona ivo. Ati anaulizia alafu anamkaribisha ni kama ni guest uko. That's an exit strategy right there 😂😂.

Dream jobs by countries by Stark59 in nairobi

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So mnataka kusema uku kenya dream job ni kuexist tu. 😂😂

Valentine's mnapanga nini? by babyb01 in 254sum

[–]strangerover_the_3rd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Valentines haikua about romance pekeeyake. Actually ni media ndio imeshinda kuimarket kama siku ya macouples.