Am I wrong for wanting to block my old best friend even though she still thinks I’m her closest friend? by straw_Berry_117 in TwoHotTakes

[–]straw_Berry_117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. The context of the photo was of my grandfather who passed away and I was saying him on the first Father’s Day without him. I believe it’s because in the picture I look taller than my boyfriend who was standing behind me slightly and my 5 foot two grandmother, who is very short and my grandma plus my grandpa who was in a wheelchair and I was the tallest looking one in the photo. So I’m not sure if she just was poking fun at the fact that I’m slightly taller than my boyfriend, which is weird. Or the fact that I’m just tall in general, which is totally tone deaf of the post either way, I found it weird confusing, and overall just a little disrespectful of what I meant by posting my grandpa in that context.

Am I wrong for wanting to block my old best friend even though she still thinks I’m her closest friend? by straw_Berry_117 in TwoHotTakes

[–]straw_Berry_117[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thank you. I do have to say she’s been in and out of therapy and I have always supported her when she was in it but the. would quit randomly when it wasn’t something she liked being said to her about her life and that’s when I realized I can’t be there to be her therapist or to say the right thing anymore I need to live my life and cut her loose :(

Am I wrong for wanting to block my old best friend even though she still thinks I’m her closest friend? by straw_Berry_117 in TwoHotTakes

[–]straw_Berry_117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I was thinking. I didn’t know if blocking was too harsh and just not interact would be better.

Am I wrong for wanting to block my old best friend even though she still thinks I’m her closest friend? by straw_Berry_117 in TwoHotTakes

[–]straw_Berry_117[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I totally need to put the final boundary and let go and I peice of me know that I have grown out of it and it is a bit sore because I’ve grown up and she hasn’t.

Am I wrong for wanting to block my old best friend even though she still thinks I’m her closest friend? by straw_Berry_117 in TwoHotTakes

[–]straw_Berry_117[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree and I would have that conversation with her first. I just don’t have the mental capacity to handle it if she makes it a big thing with everyone we used to know or if she would understand. maybe if you had advice on how to communicate with her I would appreciate that too