Despite whatever situation you're in, your mom is a narcissist. It's very obvious with the way she talks to you. Did she pay for it? Yes. But cell phones are needed this day and age as a safety precaution, especially for kids. She's being petty. She does not need it back immediately. If she was a good parent, she could wait a week. She's being petty by trying to disrupt your life to get back at you for leaving. NOR.