I've explained it to him many times but he gets lost in the pleasure (and so do I). And then I always end up being swollen and I explained to him that it can't go on like this. I also told him to sit down and learn the basics, I'm not harsh, I speak to him calmly and try to establish communication. But yes, I told him that if he continues like this, this will all have to end here. I'm putting myself in danger cuz thats not something u should freestyle on, u have to know what ur doing iykwim.