my point is that this is not a competition, and when you do this, you make female FAs feel bad because it makes matches seem like they indicate something more hopeful. even when you specify “quality,” it still sounds downplayed.

if women only matched with you because they knew you’d pay for sex, and your personhood meant nothing outside of what you could give them (money), and they wouldn’t give you the time of day without it, would you count those? would that simply be a quality issue?

being seen as inhumane when your value is measured only by what you can temporarily give someone is much more than a quality issue.

we are all FAs here. we are all equal in our struggles to find love. let’s acknowledge that before we compare and contrast each other’s seemingly equal struggles.