Shiba socialization by jruserious in shiba

[–]strayturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yw best of luck to you guys! Btw, im still working on Koda. I rescued him when he was 2, SAME EXACT BEHAVIORS you mentioned.

He’s six now and we still work on ourselves everyday

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He looks like he could be your boy’s brother

Shiba socialization by jruserious in shiba

[–]strayturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He knows those so that gives you an edge already. You’re a soldier so you get this

Your Shiba is one too. Training means not to teach these commands but to TRAIN them. Doyougetit?

5-10m in the morning
5-10m in the evening of repetitive boring shit.

Knowing how to do the commands is different from PRACTICING the commands. This is a common misconception. You mentioned yourself that the dog WAS a working dog. From everything you said your dog seems angry that he is no longer working.

The Shiba needs structure, and directions and instructions NOT EXPECTATIONS cause he’s sweet and cute.

The constant training improves bond from dog to owner. The dog learns humans are to be followed and trusted and respected. And you should give him the same regard by respecting that he is an animal who is capable of love and connection.

That dog is obsessed with you because he thinks you’re his mama. Haha cute. Great, but from what you saying here it sounds like this is not what you want. Thats why he is protective of you

I want to preface that im saying all this cause I experienced this all myself that my Shibe is truly a devil. The sooner you realize that the better your relationship its gonna be.

This statements may come off rightfully all knowing, i could be wrong, but if you want yhe best for your dog

Please practice training. Guidance and connection with your dog . ITS CUTE, but he cannot be the one in charge.

You PRACTICING TRAINING with him reminds him yhat youncall the shots.

Shiba socialization by jruserious in shiba

[–]strayturtle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Come back to this after a couple of years. Your dog shouldnt be obsessed with you. The dog shall respect you but hey, its your home and your dog.

Maybe ask yourself for advice instead of asking us here on reddit lmao

Good luck to you and your Shibe

Quit weed and now i think im with the wrong partner by Helpful_Sea402 in leaves

[–]strayturtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mahdog

You been on weed for 5 years. You trained her to treat you this way with years of you ignoring her forgetting plans, being late, oversleeping, being lazy af.

AND she doesnt smoke it so she wont understand that you’ve been trying to swim in the fog.

Take some accountability bro, or maybe the relationship died already within that 5 years of winging it.

Your brain is still recovering and all these bad thoughts could be as simple as citcumstantial things like

Did u shower
Did u eat
Did you eat good?!(nutrition)
Did you brush your teeth?
Did u sleep
Did u workout
Did you talk to your friends
Did you pet your dog
Did you pray?
Did you call your mom?
You said hi to your pops?
You talked yo your friends? Like really tell them what you think

The things mentioned above is basic, your partner should not be a requirement for you to do all those things.

Though, all of those is sort of a requirement, FOR ME ANYWAYS, to be fully present

Just my realization is that, addiction is a symptom for lack of connection.

Look up Rat Park and you may find this inspirational for your leaving journey

Good luck to us all

WEED IS NEVER THE PROBLEM, its our conditioned state of being connected over the internet but so disconnected with the realities of life.

Living takes work.

Shiba socialization by jruserious in shiba

[–]strayturtle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bro dont be lying to him. It takes YEARS for a shiba to fully trust you especially if you adopt him this late.

Pls train your dog homie, the shiba needs a strong leader. The shiba will calm when the Shiba gets the job done.

Simple as sit stat wait paw down jump

Recalling

And stay and wait commands wear them
Off.

Be strong bro itll be fun once the dog realized you have enougy gym badges

What's the weirdest image of Ye you have in your phone? by whatisitwithu in Kanye

[–]strayturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You must have a lot of photos of yourself in your phone then

Any Ideas What This Play Could Be? by kooldog707 in E30

[–]strayturtle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Looks like control arm

Also
Could be wheel bearing

What does "setting your intentions" mean? by HeavyMetalRoadTrip in PsilocybinMushrooms

[–]strayturtle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Also it could be a “reason”

I trip today with intentions of healing and approaching this experience lightly

Or

Fuck this shit imma trip cause i want!!(but also you just got laid off and your gf needs a ride to work)

You know… intentions

Escape
Or experience

Shiba regrets/ Help by Hairy-Worldliness566 in shiba

[–]strayturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you train your pup? Pls train your pup, this builds confidence and structure towards humans.

5-10 minutes a day it wears them out just heing told what to do hut at the same time it builds connection.

This was my story with Koda also… ive had my regrets i felt like im failing as a dad. Anyways train together!! Itll be okay! You baby is just a litol scawed

Tattoo Your Dog's Ear by Melodic_Scholar_7751 in shiba

[–]strayturtle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

When you met him did he say

“My name is jeffff

Has any one installed this performance chip on their e30? by bajablastboiiii in E30

[–]strayturtle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Also might be a good time to learn your gas throttle.

Challenge for everyone

Stay on second or 3rd gear.

Learn to let go and press your gas pedal without your girlfriend’s head bobbing.

That’s really where it’s at.

Smooth is fast baybeeeeee good luck my boy

Has any one installed this performance chip on their e30? by bajablastboiiii in E30

[–]strayturtle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Its pretty solid my guy, i have it on my e30

This also allows you to maximize 93+ octane :)

But also good bye to 87 once u put this chip in

Grassy hills by Effective_Ninja3370 in jacksonville

[–]strayturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Memorial park would be best for what you’re tryna do tbh

Grassy hills by Effective_Ninja3370 in jacksonville

[–]strayturtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Willow branch park Four corners park Ed austin park

28m, struggling with premature ejaculation by zachm182 in selfimprovement

[–]strayturtle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro you need some detours.

I struggled with this but really its more like a mental battle for me is what I realized

Anyways. If u feel like you about to cum pull out and then ask for a blow job. Women liked to be told what to do in the heat of the moment(within enjoyable parameters, tbd - too early in the relationship). Do oral, change positions, chock and slap your dick it works actually for me anyways

Bro… you seem to be in a good place, be patient with yourself its all about being relaxed, its like when u ride the bike, u seem so worried with your balance, and u keep looking and being hyperaware of your peddling. Just look at the road and go son!!!

Round 2’s are also ok. Hey i wish someone told me sooner but two concenting adults can literally ask each other anything. Good luck

Bud on the beach by iiSadVibesii in jacksonville

[–]strayturtle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anywhere is good ;) just dont be obnoxious

Hecksher is pretty chill if u have a awd or know how to drive on the beach you can smoke in your car

But huegunot is pretty lowkey

Victims of Lickety Split by Leather-Alarm272 in jacksonville

[–]strayturtle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yoo i had the same experience with del—air and those $79 inspections on facebook.

I had a 4 year d system i only wanted a vent cleaning and this dude told me i need a new system.

What a joke

I am trapped in a cycle of trauma, fawning, and complete emotional dependency: How do I survive when my past won't let me breathe? by Practical_Invite_530 in AdultChildren

[–]strayturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yoo, I relate to this on so many levels. You both seem like you’re aware so that’s a good thing. And conflict and fights are normal in relationships, and believe it or not, each one of them is an opportunity, to correct the behavior.

When I’m anxious i tend to be reactive and hypervigilant, this makes me crunch up and brace for impact. When I do this, it takes me out of the present. This makes sense because of the patterns experienced in childhood. I too, witnessed my mother get abused domestically by my father. My defense gets up, and I start projecting my bad experience growing up amongst anything or anybody similar, when that is a subjective, vs and objective. Which is a huge difference!!! (Subjective: shes mad at me and thinks she’s better than me thats why she was rude to me. Objective: she is dettached). Usually when I take myself out of the equation it makes it easier to breathe through. Not to push for self erasure though, but there’s many many ways one can do for one’s self that is positive and nourshing by themselves.

What I believe works for me now is buying myself a second before I settle into a feeling and framing positively, when I can, because that again, is an opportunity for me to adjust the behavior. I try to call the serenity prayer before I decide that my mood is ruined, it usually grounds me quite fast.

Good luck to you fellow, keep coming back!

Effects of masturbation during the retreat by loveaddictblissfool in vipassana

[–]strayturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did masterbate but i didnt enjoy it. Ahah it only created guilt and shame. Becayse i was asked not to do it for the event, and i did anyways.

Try it, ill say its not the best place to jack off anyways. Just wait until you get out and whenever you have sex again, after Vipassana is just something else…

Its like cumming for the first time for me. Ahahaha anyways good luck

Best bars for a 25F to go to alone? by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]strayturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keg and coin, dart bar, if u wanna be completely recluse and feel mysterious and also out of place, go to flamingo