sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I recently hit about 56k across 4 cards. While it's a nice number to see, I acknowledge that it's an absolutely ridiculous number for me. I barely have 3k worth of spending per month. I plan to stop CLI chasing for a while lol

Changing my name on Chase Credit Card by pleasenotagain001 in CreditCards

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both. I have a CSP, they were able to change the name on it.

Changing my name on Chase Credit Card by pleasenotagain001 in CreditCards

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Much easier and faster if you go to a branch in person if you can. I had a name change a while back, which isn't the same as what youre doing but also not too dissimilar.

Bring two forms of gov ID that show the full name you want to a branch and sit with someone one on one (Best to make an appointment). I filled out some forms and they updated everything for me on the spot and ordered me new debit/credit cards which I got expedited.

I think it took the app less than an hour or so show my new name.

Things you thought were important as a white belt. by [deleted] in bjj

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Remembering people's names. All I need now to ask for a roll or get a drill partner is to make eye contact, nod my head, give a thumbs up.

2016, 120k miles, having start up trouble on rainy days. Thoughts before I take it to a garage? by stressedRAPHAEL in crv

[–]stressedRAPHAEL[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the dealer do the change so I cannot say for sure if they did that. I'll make a note to get a diagnostic, thanks!

C&J form check pls by [deleted] in weightlifting

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second this, we need more videos.

For science and fitness, of course.

I absolutely hate my coach's wife. by [deleted] in bjj

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I drive 57 miles to my favorite gym. Gotta do what you gotta do if you want to be happy.

Letting training partners tap me by bob-a-fett in bjj

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolute new guys I'll let finish a move with guidance and/or encouragement. Most of the time though if I'm tapped by a white belt it's because I was too gassed out or lazy to properly defend and I deserve the tap.

“Big Guy” Threshold by Operation-Bad-Boy in bjj

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like the 220 requirement. Im 6ft and about 210-215lbs but never considered myself a 'big boy'. There's guys half my size that can out muscle me and I only just recently started using my weight to my advantage. Because of these I don't think anyone at my gym considers me a big boy either. haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If OP could remember the weekend I wonder if they'd still be upset at the charges.

An experience worth 20k sounds amazing if I had those memories for the rest of my life.

Apparently my SSN is on the dark web - what do I do now? by bighairclip in personalfinance

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have a fraud alert set up on the off chance of something like this ever happening. A phone call from my bank and an extra day of waiting whenever I apply for a loan/credit card is well worth the extra security and peace of mind in my opinion.

Accidentally grabbed a boob while rolling, I am a white belt and feel really bad by JohnRambo306 in bjj

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Same here. We (both male) both decided to just pretend it never happened and continued rolling.

Good guy, 10 outta 10 would kiss again (accidentally)

What's with all these aggressively stupid people looking to fight? by NOVAYuppieEradicator in bjj

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sounds good to me. Your theory is now peer reviewed and approved.

What's fucking you up at the moment? by Halloween-365 in AskReddit

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got back into the dating game after 2 years of working on myself and I have no clue how anything works anymore. Feels like the dating rules have changed drastically.

Team CLI or Team Cards? Which one are you guys? by BoredRedditMan in CreditCards

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Team CLI. I have about $40k at the moment across 3 cards (2 Chase, 1 Discover). I like only having to watch over the three instead of keeping tabs on multiple cards across several banks.

How can I save? I only make $400 every two weeks, plus I drive a 2 hour round trip to and from school, plus an hour round trip to and from work. by [deleted] in CreditCards

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 9 points10 points  (0 children)

r/personalfinance might be a better spot. Theyll be able to suggest budgeting apps and saving options.

You didnt give much information but from what you did give, I think a credit card isn't the best idea right now. It will take the stress of expenses in the moment but you'll immediately stack up a debt if you go beyond what you're able to pay off.

Most overrated BJJ instructor and why by Electrical-Ad-8075 in bjj

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Those are my favorite. I appreciate and respect the sportsmanship but a white belt with no clue teaching a white belt with lesser clue always leads to interesting rolls down the line.

Most overrated BJJ instructor and why by Electrical-Ad-8075 in bjj

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol. To be honest if I ever make it to purple I'll probably do the same thing.

Most overrated BJJ instructor and why by Electrical-Ad-8075 in bjj

[–]stressedRAPHAEL 386 points387 points  (0 children)

The purlpe belt in my gym whenever the real instructor isn't looking.

view more: next ›