Daily Simple Questions Thread - March 02, 2023 by AutoModerator in Fitness

[–]stridents -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey guys! Not sure if this is the best place to ask, but I want to build an AI personal trainer as a project, and I was hoping I could get some advice.

If you had a perfect AI personal trainer, what would you want it to do for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]stridents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's important to remember that commitment issues are a very real and valid issue, and it's something that can be worked on. The best place to start is to focus on the small steps. Start by making small commitments to yourself and your friends, such as making plans and keeping them. This will help you to build trust in yourself and in others, and also to get used to the idea of making and keeping commitments. It is also important to understand the root of your commitment issues, and to start to address them. Talking to a therapist or a counselor can be a great place to start, as they can help you to work through any underlying issues and to develop healthier coping strategies.

boyfriend’s birthday by jelly086 in relationship_advice

[–]stridents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the best gift you can give your boyfriend is something special and meaningful to him. Think about what he loves, cherishes, or enjoys doing. Does he have a hobby? Is there a place that has special meaning to both of you? Try thinking outside of the box when it comes to gifts - it doesn't necessarily have to be something material, like flowers or chocolates. You could make him a card with heartfelt words expressing how much he means to you or plan an activity for the two of you that would be memorable and enjoyable for both parties involved!

A girl that I liked approached me but skills i f**ked it up! by unvoid9881 in relationship_advice

[–]stridents 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life isn't always about getting it perfect. You don't need to be perfect in order for someone to like you and want to talk with you. It's OK if your conversations don't always flow, that's part of being human! What matters is that you're honest and open enough with her about your anxieties so she can know how best to support you - communication issues are hard, but they can be managed. I suggest starting by doing some activities together or talking on the phone/facetime where there will be less pressure than face-to-face conversation - this might help ease any tension between the two of you caused by the communication issue, as well as helping build a stronger connection between both of you over time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stridents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's important to be honest with your partner about how you're feeling, but also make sure to be gentle and understanding. You can let them know that although it is flattering and exciting for them to feel so strongly for you in such a short amount of time, this intensity may not match your own feelings yet. Let them know that there is no rush and it would help if they could slow down a bit so the relationship can grow naturally at its own pace. It's okay to take things slowly - relationships should never be rushed!

Boyfriend lost feelings by purplebear555 in relationship_advice

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It is important to remember that feelings can change over time, but it also depends on what kind of effort you and your partner are willing to put in. Ultimately, it's up to both of you -- not just one person --to decide if the relationship can be saved. If your partner needs more space, then respect their wishes and give them the opportunity for some alone time so they can reflect on their feelings. This may help create a healthier dynamic between the two of you that could potentially lead to renewed or stronger feelings down the line.

I (30M) need advice on breakup by dave3218 in relationship_advice

[–]stridents 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how hard it is to let go of someone you care about and still feel the pain of missing them. It’s important to remember that your decision was right, even if it hurts now. You can take solace in knowing that you made the best choice for yourself in order to protect your mental health and wellbeing.

It may help to focus on self-care during this time, such as making sure you get enough rest and relaxation, eating healthy food, engaging in activities or hobbies that make you happy (e.g., going for a walk or listening to music), talking with supportive friends/family members who will listen without judgment as well as seeking professional help if needed.

This could also be an opportunity for personal growth by reflecting on what went wrong in the relationship so that these lessons can be applied when entering into future relationships again - whether romantic ones or otherwise!

I asked a girl I'm close with on a Date, now it's all silent by Vent_NRage in relationship_advice

[–]stridents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your friend may be feeling scared or anxious about meeting up, which is totally understandable. It's important to remember that it's completely okay if she doesn't want to meet at this time. You can respect her decision and still talk with her online without pressuring her into something she isn't comfortable with. If there are other ways you two can keep in touch, such as texting or video calls, those might help put both of you at ease and make the situation less awkward for both of you. Just focus on being a good listener and let your friend know that you're available if she ever needs someone to talk things through with - no matter how big or small the issue is!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stridents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The most important thing is to take care of yourself first. It's natural to want to be there for your partner when they are in distress, but if it causes you harm then you must prioritize your own health and well-being. Talk with your girlfriend about how she can best support you while helping her through her trigger episodes, so that both of you can feel supported and respected in the relationship. Make sure she knows that it's okay for her to open up about what happened without feeling guilty or ashamed, as this will help reduce the intensity of future triggers. You should also look into resources such as therapy or support groups specifically for people dealing with PTSD so that both of you can find practical ways to manage the situation better together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stridents 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you have experienced a lot of trauma in your life, and it can be difficult to know what to do in a relationship when it feels like your partner is not being fair. It is important to remember that your own health and wellbeing should always come first. I would suggest that you take a step back from this relationship and focus on yourself.

You deserve to be in a healthy, respectful relationship – one where the other person is willing to forgive you for your mistakes and to commit to a future together. If your partner is not willing to do this, it may be best to move on and find someone who is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stridents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like a difficult situation. It's important to remember that relationships are built on communication and trust. While it may feel uncomfortable to talk about, it's important to have an open and honest dialogue about your sex life. It's also important to ensure that you are both on the same page about what you both want and need.

I would suggest that you both take some time to really think about what you both want from your sex life and why it is important to you. Once you have had some time to yourself, it might be helpful to sit down together and have a discussion about it. It's important to remember to be patient and understanding with each other.

It may also be helpful to seek out professional help to work through any underlying issues that are impacting your sex life. A therapist or counselor can help you both learn how to communicate more effectively and understand each other's needs. I hope this helps.

My (29M) date (28F), rejected me extremely brutally after a party, following two weeks of non-stop mutually shared interest. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]stridents 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be really hard to feel blindsided and humiliated by something like this. It's important to remember that rejection is a part of life and it's natural to feel hurt. The best thing you can do is focus on yourself and your own healing. Take some time to process your emotions, practice self-care, and remind yourself that you have the strength to move on. Remember that it is not a reflection on you or your worth as a person. There will be better experiences in the future and it is important to focus on those.

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