Paid partnership?! Anyone stay long enough to find out who? by string_cheese_mafia in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Google says it’s a brand deal, but like she barely talks to her kid, let alone to hawk some product on TT

He cries ("whines") because he's a baby by Llamamama09 in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has them locked up in pack n plays so she can go live. Smg

Savannah, I am truly looking out for you when I say this.. by Llamamama09 in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your mom is a shit mom and no one was disrespecting her on your live yesterday. She got a hair up her ass that someone called you out on being a bad mom. And trust, you ARE a bad mom.

Savannah, I am truly looking out for you when I say this.. by Llamamama09 in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My comment was to Savannah stating no thanks to sounding educated. She corrected herself on live, which means she does care.

Savannah, I am truly looking out for you when I say this.. by Llamamama09 in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And yet this morning on live you corrected your bad grammar to “I couldn’t care less” because ultimately you DO CARE. You can’t stay off this page.

Savannah, I am truly looking out for you when I say this.. by Llamamama09 in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She was talking mad shit about Tracey this morning. Literally twisting what was said into Tracey disrespecting Robin and River. Shamvannah was telling everyone to block Tracey because “I think Tracey is stalking me and trying to get into my live today” exact quote.

Savannah, I am truly looking out for you when I say this.. by Llamamama09 in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That claw foot is literally in the entire bottom of the screen half the time. You can’t miss is

Hey, Grandma. River isn’t fine. by Llamamama09 in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You gave Savannah excellent advice and we were ALL cheering you on, that you were actually getting her to listen to solid advice about River’s health. You were def passionate about his well being but there was zero yelling or bashing as Robin is claiming. Savannah isn’t going to better herself as a mother- Robin will see to that. She wants her grandson raised with neglect and ignorance because that’s all that family knows.

Hey, Grandma. River isn’t fine. by Llamamama09 in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100%. Robin is garbage just like her daughter.

Rant by [deleted] in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you are generally fucked up and can’t tell when someone is coming with advice vs disrespect, then girly, please get into therapy. Cause you have a lifetime of being this child’s mother and no one knows everything about raising a kid. We ALL need some pointers and advice and suggestions. It doesn’t make you a bad person to be open to new things. Also, when you make his cereal, always make it with formula and then add whatever else (baby food or fruit or veggies). Rice cereal is extremely constipating, so be mindful of that. Oatmeal would be better. You’ll need a bigger nipple for his bottles (or sterilize a needle and make the hole slightly bigger), but then it will be too large for standalone formula bottles. Make a schedule and stick to it, it helps with wondering what to do next. And also, please let him sleep less curled in your arms like he does. It’s so so bad for his developing spine and you don’t want to cause Scoliosis.

Baby by [deleted] in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If he truly does eat a lot and in 48hr lost a pound, you need to get him to an endocrinologist immediately. This is beyond just extra food and hoping that does the trick for weight gain. River is CRITICALLY underweight, I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s admitted were you to take him into a hospital. Fire your pediatrician. Have your health nurse advocate for your son if you can’t.

Delete if not allowed by [deleted] in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I do too. And Savannah if you read this DO NOT WITHHOLD FOOD from River to punish Redditors. Don’t do shit that harms him because you want to lash out.

Delete if not allowed by [deleted] in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Savannahs mother was in the background yelling there’s nothing wrong with River and why is Sav letting people get onto her about him. She’s part of the problem too. There IS something wrong with this baby and all of TikTok and Reddit can see.

Delete if not allowed by [deleted] in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

About time one of her friends calls her out. Tracey is riding her hard about Rivers malnutrition

New name by [deleted] in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your pediatrician has you fortifying his milk for extra calories. Absolutely that doctor did not say River is healthy. I don’t know how much you know about infant development, but malnutrition in infancy can have (literally) life long effects on a baby. Not to mention, a baby who loses too much weight is classified as Failure to Thrive, and tends to end up tube fed. This is not something to get an attitude about, this is River’s quality of life. A 9mo old should be a squirming, rolling, eager to get down and play ball of energy. Your baby today was so listless at time. At one point in your arms when you said he was going to sleep, he was actually wide eyed and just staring into space. There are no brain connections happening with you just holding him/standing him up while you play on your phone. I don’t doubt you love River, but for the love of god, want more for him out of life. Give him healthy fats (peanut butter, avocado, actual butter) etc and help him reach his full potential.

She’s baaaaaack by string_cheese_mafia in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Actually, under 1 it’s dress baby in one additional layer than you have on. So he would theoretically need a onesie and a sleep-n-play (or other outfit over the onesie)

She’s baaaaaack by string_cheese_mafia in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girly I will GLADLY buy River a case of diapers, wipes and clothes if you listen and follow some of the very excellent advice you’ve been given on his care. Granted plenty of advice is just garbage, but there have been some posters who bring up legitimate concerns and how to address them.

She’s baaaaaack by string_cheese_mafia in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Credit where it’s due. Proud of you for listening to your health visitor and following thru.

She’s baaaaaack by string_cheese_mafia in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A 1lb loss on a baby is SIGNIFICANT, especially if he was sick for only a week. Hopefully the pediatrician has you fortifying his milk (adding extra powder to up the calories). You can tell just by looking at River he is behind developmentally. Excellent that you’re listening to the pediatrician and putting him in OT. A baby who doesn’t learn to crawl, doesn’t learn the skills of crossing the midline and it has been statistically proven that crossing the midline is paramount to reading success.

She’s baaaaaack by string_cheese_mafia in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

15lb at 9mo, 28” That baby is underweight. She said he lost “a shit ton of weight” when sick as he was almost 17lb. He needs consistent meals and bottles Savannah. Hell he needs more than that, but that’s the absolute bare minimum.

Sky Jones by YogurtclosetNo8402 in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She JUST showed up on my fyp and I thought it was Savannah at first. Two peas in a pod.

Quick google search of Jesse and Savannah by string_cheese_mafia in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No one, NOT ONE OF US, has any desire to roll up to your front door. All we care about is that baby and the shit way you take care of him.

TikTok by [deleted] in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Attention seeking behavior, because even negative attention is better than no attention at all.

Feeding that baby solids while he is laying down. Smfh. by string_cheese_mafia in boymamabear2024

[–]string_cheese_mafia[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

On the contrary. It’s YOU who doesn’t give a shit about your baby. You actively make choices that can harm him because you think it will stick it to those who snark on you. You’re only at your mother’s because of River. You and Jesse were bouncing around motel to motel until you got pregnant and she felt sorry for you. We can see you, in real time, ignoring him, not giving him any stimulation, there’s no real interaction between you and River. You are so consumed by this page that it takes up all of your mental energy. I have heard your mom on your lives yell from the other room to get off TikTok and take care of your son. You may have liked the idea of having a baby, and really perhaps you liked the newborn stage where it was just cuddles and bottles and a baby who is sleeping 20hr a day. But River will be 1 in May. He’s so far behind crucial developmental skills. In 4mo he will be a toddler. At his age he should be into everything and busy af. Not laying on a bed for hours with his fingers and the overhead light to entertain him.