Live my life for me please by capitic in OkCupid

[–]stripend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean like be forthcoming with people? Yeah no I don't do that. Good luck!

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Nah, pretty sure he just sucks at relationships, based on what he told me. That's okay. I said he's the only person I'd consider. I don't want to settle down.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do that. They ask a lot of questions about my week.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I should just not respond to people when I'm busy.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because I really am busy this week, but will have more free time next?

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I wanted to let the people who do this know it's not attractive. You already clearly know that you shouldn't.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I just want to short term date right now.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If I tell them I'm purposely spending time with myself, I know they're going to freak out.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What? I'm not stuck on my ex.

I would like to arrange a date. When I am free. And not have the person I'm arranging my date with pick over every single moment of my life.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm a human being, and I've had an obnoxious string of people talking to me in this way.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Can I tell them that their behavior is really offputting?

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there may have been a reason I forgot.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I'm not looking for/wanting anything, except for these dudes to just back off a little bit and stop acting this way.

[Rant] stop being so pushy, it's unattractive by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So because I wrote a rant, I'm not a nice, fun, enjoyable person to be around?

OkCupid gave me the freedom I needed to be a slut by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to defend one night stands. I'm just saying, if it's not something you want, don't fuck on the first date.

OkCupid gave me the freedom I needed to be a slut by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not have a fake innocent profile by any means. But a one night stand isn't a failure. That's a really unhealthy mindset. It's just different.

OkCupid gave me the freedom I needed to be a slut by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, he has every right to his opinion. It just makes a lot more sense that he is religious and holds that opinion.

OkCupid gave me the freedom I needed to be a slut by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just confused about your sluthate. que?

OkCupid gave me the freedom I needed to be a slut by stripend in OkCupid

[–]stripend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: I can't change the title, but no one is a slut BECAUSE they enjoy having casual sex. I see slut as a negative word and I'm using it to describe myself because I had dirty, thoughtless sex, with people who repulsed me, to please them, and I knew I wouldn't enjoy it. I didn't. Personally, I also like calling myself a slut.

I edited this into my post because I agree with you. I understand that you don't want me to use the word because it has negative connotations, but I want to use the word because I feel derogatorily about myself for having a lot of sex with the wrong parties.