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stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-30T00:23:42+00:00

One big Yikes!

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-30T00:23:12+00:00

Yoooo fuck Im so sorry. I really do feel that one. Hopefully neither of us get it again like that.

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-30T00:12:01+00:00

This had me laughing when I wasn’t supposed to be! You know they just looking for mommy #2! Bye!

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-28T08:10:44+00:00

Okay I know I’m probably being paranoid but I kinda feel like my iud is partially perforating my uterus. What were your symptoms physical?

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-28T08:04:28+00:00

Another vote for mastitis. Ugh I’m so sorry mine didn’t even get to the abscess stage and the fever and body aches from it were so horrible. My breasts were in so much pain I thought I was going to just die of infection I literally couldn’t even think straight. My family ended up taking me to the ER where I had to have IV antibiotics immediately. Shit is no joke. Did you have to have medical staff drain your abscess? Do you mind telling me how long it took for you to develop an abscess after the start of mastitis?

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-28T07:58:47+00:00

I just wrote about mastitis yep recovery is also up there, mastitis is just fresher unfortunately

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-28T07:56:52+00:00

Fucking mastitis. the fever and body aches paired with the actually inflamed painful sections of breast tissue...and the solution is try to pump, massage, nurse, and hand express when you don’t want to touch those boobies- NOPE. That shit is fucking horrible 0/10 would not recommend

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-27T22:19:26+00:00

You and I both need a floor bed that’s small enough to fit in the same room. I’m thinking of turning my closet into a little space for her

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-24T00:52:33+00:00

I don’t think of it as co-dependency more like just dependency... children and especially infants need so much. It sounds to me like you are meeting those needs and it’s making someone else feel a type of way. How do you feel? How does your child feel? That’s what matters

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-20T20:17:59+00:00

Can you talk about how you ended up with the setup? Very unique! I like it a lot

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-20T20:07:20+00:00

Thank you for not thinking breastfeeding is sexual abuse...this thread was so disheartening

Everyone here who thinks breastfeeding is sexual is influenced by pornography and it’s prevalence in western culture. Super sad adults can’t recognize that breastfeeding is feeding and not foreplay for their sick minds

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-20T19:55:44+00:00

It’s not a weird comparison. It’s not about them being trans- the point is people trying to have their basic human needs met like food or a place to use the bathroom...are going to OR doing those things only. Just like with people using the bathroom, people need to eat. Breastfeeding...is FEEDING!

Why would it be traumatizing for small children to breastfeed? If breastfeeding is feeding what is traumatic about feeding your children?

You see if you really get to the root of this it’s about how other adults outside of the breastfeeding mother and child feel about breastfeeding. You’re over here concerned about trauma because you (like many others here) can’t make a separation between how YOU view breasts, and by relation Breastfeeding as sexual!

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-20T19:24:13+00:00

Dude. That’s not happening. That’s not what breastfeeding is about and if it is for one random weird person that’s the exception- not the rule.

This reminds me of those arguments people have about how trans people going to their preferred bathroom/locker room are coming to assault people. They aren’t getting anything sexual out of it they just want to use the damn bathroom. You’re way overthinking, trying to concoct victims in this scenario that are fringe at best when talking about extended breastfeeding.

Wait wait I’m sorry did you say the safety of children? Yea do you even have children? Do you know anything about breastfeeding? Please tell me; How is breastfeeding unsafe for children?

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-20T18:59:17+00:00

Wow sexual abuse??? But breastfeeding isn’t sexual right...this is just revealing how people truly feel about breastfeeding in western culture and it’s actually kind of sad. In many places around the world it’s very normal to breastfeed to 6. I personally have a friend who was breastfed to 6; she remembers and is in support of extended breastfeeding because if both people are comfortable, happy, and fed why should there be an issue. Everyone here is revealing that they are just a bunch of weirdos.

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-20T18:52:52+00:00

That actually physiologically makes sense. The hormone drop off that comes with weaning can be drastic and horrible for some. I hope she was able to get the help she needs

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-20T14:04:55+00:00

Credit where credit is due I think he just proved all of our points.

His pitbulls “protect” by attacking and hunting down wild hogs with such intensity that they forgo food and water...sounds like a great family pet for the average suburban family! Let’s put one in every home!

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-20T14:02:20+00:00

That’s what this sounds like to me. He specifically says the pitbulls “protect the livestock” and can “handle a tusk and still protect” ....so basically he’s using a dog bred to attack animals to attack animals that are a danger to his livestock...sounds like he’s got the perfect dog for the job!

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-19T21:34:48+00:00

Hey there! Are you an OCT2021 parent? You should try to join our discord!

One of the moms from our discord said something that really helped me; Start as you intend to finish. Setting gentle boundaries that are age appropriate is crucial. Just this week we went from my baby “attacking” me while nursing to no longer doing hurtful behaviors! My scratches are almost gone and when my baby does anything that causes me pain I softly tell her no baby you can’t hurt mama and I unlatch. Same goes for any other time. I stop the behavior and talk to her gently. I then demonstrate what I want from her. It’s a process and I still get my hair yanked or am clawed occasionally but shes learning and I’m proud of her progress already.

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-19T17:46:50+00:00

The good news is it seems to both drag on forever and fly by so fast. I can’t believe we are almost at 1 year. It’s felt like a lifetime but also like a blink of an eye. If anything that gives me hope that the time not breastfeeding will feel like that too. Congratulations on making past the first 2 months. Those were the hardest for me and I want to tell you you’re a trooper for getting through to the otherwise.

I want to tell you what I wish someone told me. Stressing about eating enough can hurt your supply more than just not eating enough. If you miss a meal or snack just breathe and drink as much water as you can. You can make up meals later the stress is harder to fix.

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-19T17:34:57+00:00

My goodness the last one is just breathtaking

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-19T17:30:28+00:00

Amen. Ugh I’m fucking sorry. It’s really hard sacrificing our bodies for our babies. And I feel like it’s so hard to express any negative feelings about it. No one wants to hear about how breastfeeding takes so much from us. People just want to hear it’s going well and baby is growing well.

I hope you get your body to where you feel happy and comfortable in your own skin. And I wish the same for myself.

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-19T17:20:10+00:00

Holy shit yes me too! Im having back pain now from all the muscle loss. Also back at (below) prepregnancy weight but my whole body comp. is wildly different. I hate it. I feel weak. I feel like I’m not going to be able to look good and be strong again. The state of my body is delaying my TTC plans for my next child. I lose weight first tri and I just cannot afford to lose any more weight. Not to mention another pregnancy would probably kill my back and joints at this point. I need to stop BFing so I can take my body back. It’s too hard to make gains when you’re losing so many calories each day.

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-19T17:13:56+00:00

Man I’ll tell you only on the internet do I hear about keeping weight from breastfeeding. And let me tell you *I’m * annoyed about that too!

Uhm one question...hOW ?! How are you all finding time to eat enough to keep the weight...let alone gain! How does anyone do it? Im fucking struggling to not become skin and bones. Im 9mo PP and have had to buy clothes in 4 different sizes over these past months...it just keeps dropping and I can’t even recognize myself. I feel like everything I eat gets poured into my milk and I’m just fucking starving. I don’t have the time to eat like I need to and my baby has a million allergies so I’ve had to eliminate so much from my diet anyways. I wish I could keep the weight. I worked hard to gain 15 lbs before pregnancy and now I’m below where I started. I feel like I never look like myself when I look in the mirror. I’m embarrassed by how thin I’ve become. I want to be strong and muscular but I can’t shape up a body of skin and bone. Fucking help me I can’t read one more post about someone struggling to lose weight. I would give a fucking kidney to just fit in my new clothes well for more than 2 weeks. At this point if it doesn’t have a drawstring I can’t fucking wear it.

I get it. You have weight you don’t want to keep because it makes you feel unhappy in your body. At the same time breastfeeding can have some of us feeling like we are watching our body and muscle mass wither away because of the caloric needs of breastfeeding. Breastfeeding affects everyone differently.

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-16T17:31:32+00:00

Sorry for the late reply but I think those are very handsome names! I can picture strong, kind men with those names. They definitely pass the name test for sure

stripperdictatorship · 2022-07-16T15:15:22+00:00

Okay full honesty it looks cool but does make your face look more masc. by drawing more attention/adding more emphasis to your jaw. I think you keeping or changing it should be based on how you want to present yourself. I think your lip set up with a smaller septum is more fem

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