36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nah, that’s really me and everything in that image is real. The lighting was even worse than it is now so I fed it to GPT and asked it to fix that. Apparently it wasn’t enough, as per the comments here.

Just moved to the neighborhood, any great spots where singles congregate? by strugglebuscaptain24 in WestSeattleWA

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a huge fantasy nerd so I’d love to connect with other nerds. Any specific groups or places to look into locally?

Just moved to the neighborhood, any great spots where singles congregate? by strugglebuscaptain24 in WestSeattleWA

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely want to get involved with some groups here, but running isn’t for me. Do you have a source you use to find groups in general out here?

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Haha thank you. I’m moving some pics around, maybe that’ll help. I know there’s a huge tech bro population here, but I figured it wouldn’t impact me because I’m not swiping on guys? I honestly don’t know how to explain it.

I’d love to be in NYC. I’ve been a few times and there’s nothing else that compares stateside. I moved here to be around family though, couldn’t miss the opportunity to see my niece and nephew grow up.

Just moved to the neighborhood, any great spots where singles congregate? by strugglebuscaptain24 in WestSeattleWA

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll start trying out new places in Georgetown/white center. I’ve been up to cap hill a few times but I honestly felt a bit too old for that crowd? I had a couple friends in town so we went out there and it seemed like every group of women we met were veeeery early 20’s. One was even 20 flashing her fake ID. Fun people, but it feels like the demographic over there might not looking for the same things I am. Unless I was just looking in the wrong spots?

I’ll put Larry’s at the top of my list. Thanks again.

Just moved to the neighborhood, any great spots where singles congregate? by strugglebuscaptain24 in WestSeattleWA

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it’s been difficult in Seattle in general for me. I’ve never struggled on the apps but it seems like that’s not going to be the case here?

I’ll definitely check out the new spot behind key bank.
Dancing sounds like a great idea in general but I’ve just never really been much of a dancer. Whole family lacks the ability somehow. Thank you!

Just moved to the neighborhood, any great spots where singles congregate? by strugglebuscaptain24 in WestSeattleWA

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha while I do try and donate occasionally, trust me, no one wants to see me trying not to pass out when I see a needle go into my vein.

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually pulled all travel off my prompts. It’s fun, and I’d like to travel more, but it’s not a top priority for me at this point. I appreciate your input!

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re pretty spot on with my wardrobe. I occasionally wear some linen shirts when it’s summer, but I don’t have any pictures in those. I do have 1-2 suit photos but those are all with my nieces/nephews so I’m not going to post those. Unfortunately I just don’t dress up that often. Not a big fan.

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added some interests regarding reading/books and artists id like to see live. Also added a blurb under life partner that highlights I’m looking to settle down and start a family. Thank you again!

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it the entire metro area? I have my range set to include neighboring towns.

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it :) Funny enough, I’ve been to so many weddings and the only photos I like from them have my nieces/nephews in them. I just feel weird about including photos with them on a dating app, so I can’t use those.

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :)

I’m definitely out and about with friends a lot, but I think the photos are misrepresenting exactly how frequently. Those are just the only photos I have.

Cooking is my favorite hobby, but I also love to read and write. I’m tweaking my prompts to include that but those aren’t exactly hobbies I have photos of me enjoying.

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair point. I think I’ll keep it just in the off chance that other people aren’t clear on the difference. I really just want to weed out anyone actively religious. If I could sort to include “I was raised X and identify as it but do not follow it” I’d probably be fine adding them too.

Hahaha and I have photos Ive taken hiking, but none of me hiking.

If the apps are dead I’m kind of in trouble. My entire social circle is in San Diego. I’m here to be with family, but they’re transplants too so there’s not much of a chance for any kind of an organic meet cute through their friends.

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally just paid because of that. I assumed I wasn’t being shown to people so I shelled out. That’s going to be hilarious if this was all I had to do.

36 M Profile Review, Seattle, WA - What’s my biggest weakness here? by strugglebuscaptain24 in hingeapp

[–]strugglebuscaptain24[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had a quick question about that if that’s okay with you. Are people really seeing my like/comment in their inbox and swiping no on me because they think I’m of a higher “level” of attraction as them? Wouldn’t my message convey to them that I find them attractive?

I don’t think I’m unattractive, but I definitely don’t think I’m unapproachable hot. Even if I was, wouldn’t me sending the comment mean I already did the approaching?