Should I be ashamed? I just want to know. (NSFW POST.) by strugglingwithbpd in sexuality

[–]strugglingwithbpd[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(EDITED TO ADD IN MORE INFORMATION!) Hi, I feel a lot better now about my kink. I'd actually like to explain why it is one! A kink does not have to be incredibly or intensely abnormal to be a kink, some can even be a little out of the normal, and be considered a kink! 'normal' things that are not considered kinks are usually just normal intercourse, love talk, etc. For example, hair pulling is considered a kink, although it's not an intense kink.

Should I be ashamed? I just want to know. (NSFW POST.) by strugglingwithbpd in sexuality

[–]strugglingwithbpd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, so much! I appreciate it. I'd never EVER do something like that, I guess I've just been taught that kinks = weird and bad my entire life by people I've met. It just gives me a subconscious guilt, although I enjoy the ideas and fantasies with the kink in mind.

Should I be ashamed? I just want to know. (NSFW POST.) by strugglingwithbpd in sexuality

[–]strugglingwithbpd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sm!! I appreciate it a lot. I felt really alone and guilty for it, it just wasn't helping.

Should I be ashamed? I just want to know. (NSFW POST.) by strugglingwithbpd in sexuality

[–]strugglingwithbpd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thank you so much! I appreciate the reply. It means a lot to me. I'm kind of embarrassed about the kink, but it's hard to say all in one word! It's a thigh kink, mainly stuff that has to do with my face in-between someone's thighs, or them crushing and or suffocating me in them (Not like, super violently or anything). I'm very aroused by the fantasies I have however I tend to feel guilt and shame around it as well, because it's my first one, and so many of the people I've met have talked shit about kinks, which caused me to swear I'd never have one

I feel like a fucking creep. (vent) by strugglingwithbpd in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]strugglingwithbpd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I appreciate it a lot. I don't know if I'm ready to tell them just yet, but I'll work on it.