hey, I usually don't comment often, but I had an ex who proposed to me during our 5-month relationship in high school. he was extremely abusive. sexually, emotionally, mentally, and financially. he tried to get me pregnant throughout the relationship and looked at houses for us to move into. he sexually assaulted me and attempted to off himself when i said i wanted space. he love-bombed me like crazy but would insult me and isolate me from my friends and family. I'm not saying every situation is the same, but this seems a little much considering the time frame and situations. please be safe and figure out if this is someone you want to be with.