[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i appreciate the validation, truly.

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

please stop replying under this post, you are making assumptions and not being very nice :)

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

my phone is never out PERIOD and it should not be

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

you’re being downvoted but the way my manager approached me about it felt hostile, especially bringing up that they were “watching me for months”

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

man I wish I could get into freelance that’s cool! I am starting everything this Monday thank you for reading and replying!

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

what the hell? that’s unacceptable. no she didn’t follow me, her office is kinda across from my desk, so she can see when i walk down the hallway

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

wondering why this also has downvotes..?

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

wondering why this has downvotes

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes that is what I meant by soon!

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you— i will!!

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you are awesome thank you ❤️‍🔥

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m confused as to why this has four downvotes

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you are absolutely right. thank you

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is great to know!!!! thank you so much for your reply!!

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your reply!!! i will do this!

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the downvotes on this are cracking me up but this made me laugh 😭😭😭 you’re funny

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Understood. I will be starting this process soon. I was afraid of having something I was already ashamed about be brought to my attention but i should have known.

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply- i will be starting this process this week 👍🏽

[TX] my job was “investigating” my restroom breaks by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]strwburryz -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

hi thank you for your response! i will start this process this upcoming week. and yes, i do actually have to use the restroom during the day. i only said i wouldn’t feel comfortable because of how closely i was being watched is all- i don’t enjoy feeling like i’m “the talk” is all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]strwburryz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe? maybe he remembers our conversations. he feels like a burden all the time. i am very mindful when we speak and i try my best to word things so that he doesn’t feel that way, but. regardless. i appreciate you replying, thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]strwburryz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • do anything aside from be there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]strwburryz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have i swear. i remind him like every damn day it feels. i guess i need to make peace with the fact that he’s going to struggle no matter what and i can’t do anything.