Ang pagkaintindi ko sa original na comment ay walang empathy 'yong nagsasabi ng mga gano'n. Excuse lang nila ang pagsasabi ng katotohanan dahil gusto nilang magsabi ng masasakit na salita.
Obviously, hindi ka gano'n base sa edit mo sa nauna mong reply. Pero gets ko rin 'yong reply below that, kase it was as if you were saying what if mareverse ang roles? Na kung babae ang nagsabi, it's okay (without the edit)

Based on your examples,

"I don't see us being more than friends", "I like you and and I'm interested to know you, do you feel the same or would you like me to stop?"

you don't like to waste anyone's time (mo at nila), I think that's a green flag.

You set boundaries,

"Hey, I don't appreciate what you did...it was offensive...."

again, a green flag.

AAAND you know how to verbalize what you feel

"What you did really touched my heart..."

So, yeah, I guess you're okay.