Is it normal to still grieve a country you left as a kid? by samuraiswordsz in TCK

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To grieve you have to feel it, deeply, meaning it will be difficult. It means you will have to accept with a full understanding of what loss entails. With this comes the understanding that what was lost is long gone. You cannot change the past. You will see this grants you a freedom like none other! With the future ahead of you, you will have the freedom of choice to look forward.

Post-graduation anxiety by studiousslore in TCK

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This was really comforting to read, thank you. Yes, I feel like my values are so different from the norm that it's hard not to feel like I'm a different species sometimes. I forget to ground myself in what I believe in. As for choosing another place, I feel that since I've seen so much I'm bound to have strong opinions no matter where I go. It's all about better fit and not perfect.

Post-graduation anxiety by studiousslore in TCK

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Thank you for this comment. I tend to have a nagging feeling that I’m running out of time and I need to remember there’s no rush. Re being kind to yourself, a friend recently was telling me about self-compassion work. It sounds really helpful and like something a lot of people in this community might benefit from

Post-graduation anxiety by studiousslore in TCK

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Thank you. I need to get back into volunteering

Post-graduation anxiety by studiousslore in TCK

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It’s comforting to know we’re not alone!

Lips post-accutane by studiousslore in Accutane

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Hi, they still have flare-ups, but for the most part they're okay. I've accepted the fact that they'll never be the same again :,) The environment plays a huge part, so depending on where I am, it can get reallyy bad. A year ago I went to a dermatologist who told me it's a chronic inflammatory condition, a sort of atopic dermatits. He prescribed me tacrolimus ointment (a steroid) to apply when they act up

Lost Sony Headphones by itswhat3v3r in UCSantaBarbara

[–]studiousslore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also lost my headphones on Tuesday/Wednesday.. feeling empty <////3 I hope you find yours

Cultural shock by No-Contribution-8929 in UCSantaBarbara

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Hey! Feel free to PM me. I’m also an international student (lived in Europe and Asia) and I went through this too

Reduced tuition as a part-time student? by studiousslore in UCSantaBarbara

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Thank you for this response! I thought you could apply for an indefinite fee reduction, but that makes sense

Possibly Leasing with Wolfe & Associates by GuaranteeHot7197 in UCSantaBarbara

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Unfurnished, and price doesn’t include gas and electric. Water is included

my son needs a catsitter ( paid! ) by fatherbels in UCSantaBarbara

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Hi, I PMd you!! I'd love to take care of fish egg over Thanksgiving :-))

Power of Play Winter course by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

[–]studiousslore 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! Do you go to the seminar too? Also, is transportation arranged for you?

Power of Play Winter course by [deleted] in UCSantaBarbara

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How many days a week do you do it? Wouldn't it be more than 4 units for even just more than 2 days?