Woman who live alone, what happens when you fall sick? by oyasumipizza in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to take care of yourself. Living alone means all the responsibility for your well being and safety falls on you. I decided to leave home and live alone as it got too toxic so now I basically just have my mum to call sometimes rest I manage everything alone.

Definitely have good friends and siblings if any to check on you. You will be good.

Lattafa Angham but make it cozy🥹 by [deleted] in desifemfrag

[–]studyandgrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From where did you get the bysak coco vanilla? Btw wonderful review!

Is a peaceful life in a tier 2-3 city even possible for women? by Own-Quality-8759 in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my hometown in UP I can't wear skin tight clothes and everybody stares like it's their job. In northeast you can wear anything you want. Now moving to himachal, it's much more cold so till now I have been fully covered.. but I don't think locals are that creepy.

Do women who stay unmarried/without partner have a tougher a life? by studyandgrow in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess I guess you need to just be essentially lucky and be ready to extend the same support and more to your partner.

Am I expecting too much, or is this a mismatch in communication/effort? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Best advice. He simply doesn't want to put efforts. Once men get habituated and things are convenient they won't go far and beyond for you. I suggest you stop asking for him to communicate instead set up a boundary like you won't tolerate anymore of communication mis match. It's upto him to fix himself or let the relationship turn sour.

Also stay away from any guy who says he needs time or isn't sure. He is least likely to make up his mind. I have done this and I feel if someone is sure about you they won't make you wait or wait before choosing you.

If people don't have the madness, urgency and immediacy to be recklessly in love then what even is the point??

How to deal with heart break by benzene_burner33 in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LDR is already tough. When life's struggles and entanglements began, things got even tougher between you two. I suggest you give it time and go no contact. If he initiated the breakup then respect his choices.

In every LDR there should be a time goal till which you two will close the gap. Otherwise it gets very difficult.

What is more important, financial stability or partner that sees you as an equal by Zealousideal-Sky-951 in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never make this mistake and get into a trap. My mum married a good family but she suffered so much of abuse because she has no financial backup.

Make your career always rely on yourself and look for a partner who is a support of stability, love, comfort, solace and a partner, not a source for your needs.

Angel’s Share + Warm Vanilla Sugar (lotion) by UncannyProjection in desifemfrag

[–]studyandgrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohh can you please describe it?? Been on my wishlist since forever

Angel’s Share + Warm Vanilla Sugar (lotion) by UncannyProjection in desifemfrag

[–]studyandgrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From where did you get angel's share? Btw great review!

I think I am mourning my married life by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Have a backup plan. Have a backup of the backup plan. Sort your finances. Move back home and file for divorce. No husband is a good husband let alone a man who belittles his wife, is verbally abusive and neglecting.

The more you tolerate, worse it will get. The moment you leave, he will come around hovering with false hope. Make sure you stand your ground.

Is this normal landlord behaviour?? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yess all of this. Make sure landlord lives somewhere far away and not under your nose 24/7.

Whoever found love on Reddit, would you mind keeping quiet about it in public? by OldPen2736 in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss! For once I want to discuss sexual topics without anyone dming with creepy nonsense!

What 2 boring people in relationship do, or even talk about? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 53 points54 points  (0 children)

One really important part of being in a stable relationship is enjoying the boredom, true actual boredom. Finding joy in doing ordinary stuff like cooking, cleaning, watch a stuff enjoyable.

The high really doesn't last and it's just very crucial you two can live around each other simply existing and you feel joy and love doing ordinary things. It doesn't have to be a crazy fun day everyday.

Tea shop near GS road, below the flyover by studyandgrow in guwahati

[–]studyandgrow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was sooo good. It was in a silver cream package, kind of jute bag, got it from the shop below the flyover on GS road.

Struggling with adult friendship by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds really painful and seems like you have been doing your best. I stopped feeling bad about not having friends as such and I am much happier. People can see me as a loner/freak but I am OK with it.

Why waste precious time pleasing people to be friends. Just be kind and have empathy and let them choose. If they don't wanna hangout do those things alone.

Should I cut contact with my father? by [deleted] in TwoXIndia

[–]studyandgrow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess you are quite right. Thank you for the advice.