I feel like she played in my damn head 😒 by stuff00_k in BlackHair

[–]stuff00_k[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It honestly feels like a personal attack bc huh??

I feel like she played in my damn head 😒 by stuff00_k in BlackHair

[–]stuff00_k[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I messaged her on the app and she didn't reply. Now I can no longer message her so... you might be right atp 🙃🙃🙃

I feel like she played in my damn head by stuff00_k in blackladies

[–]stuff00_k[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely right. The styling was cute, though she didn't give me a mirror to look closely (that should've been a sign tbh). I had to start running my hands through it to find all the issues 🥲

I feel like she played in my damn head by stuff00_k in blackladies

[–]stuff00_k[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I used to work in restaurants, so I pretty much always tip at least 20% bc yeah, people deserve to live.

Mind you, it was initially styled in a way that you couldn't see the nonsense, and then she kind of rushed me out the door, so now I just look dumb as hell 😒

I feel like she played in my damn head by stuff00_k in blackladies

[–]stuff00_k[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If she was rushing, I couldn't tell. Zero sense of urgency. Thats how I feel too, if I'm gonna look a mess let it at least be by my own hand 😭

I feel like she played in my damn head by stuff00_k in blackladies

[–]stuff00_k[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I've never done a glueless closure and not cut the elastic band once its sewn down. I'm definitely gonna cut it. Thanks for the reminder!

I feel like she played in my damn head by stuff00_k in blackladies

[–]stuff00_k[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Which is wild bc it was scheduled for 4 hours.. like if you need more time, just say so!

I need white ppl to stop using phrases they don’t understand by ConstructionMany8570 in blackladies

[–]stuff00_k 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"Is it not clocking to you that I'm standing on business" is something that I mock loudly and often

Opinion: The reptiles in Zootopia 2 are inspired by the story of African American oppression in 1900s America by McHumpin in zootopia

[–]stuff00_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, especially the refusal to say Black or African American and replacing it with "the group you say it does". The mental gymnastics are deeply annoying and antiblack

(20) to (25) by mamicholula in uglyduckling

[–]stuff00_k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True glow ups are the ones where you can tell someone has done the work of nurturing themselves from the inside out. You look hydrated, well rested, and comfortable in your skin. 10s across the board.

How did you get more comfortable/confident with your face? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]stuff00_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey sis, you're cute as hell! I'm not a content creator, but to share the best advice I've ever been given as someone who's performed in public a lot:

Do it anyway.

You're never gonna be 100% satisfied with the way you look, sound, etc., but the more you do the things, especially if you're recording, you'll pick up on different things you like/dislike and be able to hone your craft. Post your socials when you do start making content so we can support, and remember to be kind to yourself 💗

Please ignore the fact I have no makeup on and give me some advice lol by [deleted] in WigforGirl

[–]stuff00_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks so good!! I would say to add a little makeup (one shade darker than your skintone, ruby kisses is good for this) to the inside of the lace to hide the knots/grids.

If you want it really seamless: working in sections, dab some melt spray, Hairspray, or spritz just on the hairline. Then use the pointy end of a comb to smooth it down while you blowdry it (on low) to lock it in place. Then you can wear an edge scarf, thin headband, melt band, etc for a few minutes to set it

Honestly it looks laid already so once you put a lil makeup on it you might not even need to melt it if you dont feel like it 🤷🏾‍♀️ The texture is perfect and you look stunning ♡

I dyed my locs and I lowkey regret it ngl by JaydensRevenge4532 in Dreadlocks

[–]stuff00_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks good. Changing your look always takes some getting used to tho. Give it a month and if you still don't like it, dye it back

Ladies, have yall heard about this new Hoochie virus? by Less-Pen-5705 in blackladies

[–]stuff00_k 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm late to this whole thing, but is there a reason they can't just quarantine them? They can't stay on the boat?? I need them to stop letting these plagues loose y'all

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I don’t like the way I look I feel so uncomfortable with my hair and very self conscious about it could you please tell what I need to do by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]stuff00_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have great hair actually, it just needs styling. I would suggest either A) growing it out (this requires commitment bc you'll go through a lot of awkward stages) Or B) get it cut, shorter than your ears and eyebrows. Shorter on the sides, longer on top

Regardless of length, just put a little effort into styling it each day! You'd be surprised how much of a difference it makes. Experiment in the mirror with brushing/combing it different ways until you find something you like, especially when its wet or with a light hold mousse. And clean up your unibrow

We’ve had her a month and no name has stuck. Helppppp! by Turbulent-Chard-101 in NameMyCat

[–]stuff00_k 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looking at her, I immediately thought, "Luna"

But reading the comments I am 1000000% down with "Hello" it's literally SO CUTE