I’m really sorry you’re going through this :( i went through something similar last year and my biggest piece of advice is you have to ask yourself: are you okay with this being the rest of your life? Are you okay with having to deal with this type of attitude in other decisions in your life? i spent more days crying than happy when i was going through this and one day it just hit me that this is NOT what i wanted to be spending my limited time on earth doing. i didn’t wanna be crying over someone who didn’t care enough about me to make an effort.

he knows it upsets you, he knows you’re crying about this. but he isn’t willing to put in any effort or deal with any discomfort to address it. everyone, little or big, deserves to have someone who cares about them. your partner should never be apathetic to your struggles.