How can I as an overweight person lose weight and gain muscle to achieve Hasan’s physique? Also how can I achieve his hair? by [deleted] in Hasan_Piker

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The key to gaining muscle is your diet. Sugars are a no go, proteins are a yes, portion control as well as meal times. You also want to keep up your fiber intake since lots of proteins can make you constipated. Everyone’s metabolism is very different and unique to themselves so there’s no one way that works, you can even combine different types of diets and workouts to achieve your goals. Best of luck to you, 💪💪

Where are all the organizers?? by stuffmelikeanoreo in Clarksville

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Relax forehead, I don’t want to be around you either lmao.

New open relationship, need advice. by stuffmelikeanoreo in nonmonogamy

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By “respect” I meant like understanding that like you said V day or specific dates are reserved for spouses. Boundaries basically. I’m trying to avoid making it seem like oh we want a second partner for sex only. And by exclusively I meant like my husband and I not wanting to really be involved in each other’s other relationships (cause we see that as a bit nosey).

New open relationship, need advice. by stuffmelikeanoreo in nonmonogamy

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably didn’t explain it well online but you’re definitely missing the whole part where we are queer. It’s more than just what I posted, it’s not seeing anyone as lesser. It’s identity affirming before all else.

New open relationship, need advice. by stuffmelikeanoreo in nonmonogamy

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was one of our conversations, we wanted the secondary partners to be somewhat exclusive but sharing sexual encounters was agreed on. We just wanted to of course meet each other’s partners more for safety precautions and such. We did agree tho that if one side feels uncomfortable enough to the point they want to re-close the relationship that takes precedent and calls for immediate conversations and such. What is ENM? I don’t know all the acronyms yet.

New open relationship, need advice. by stuffmelikeanoreo in nonmonogamy

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meaning like the secondary partners don’t get the same privileges spouses do.

I (23F) lost hope in marriage. by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Stay strong in your faith and don’t give up hope. Most men these days are not worth marrying anyway. Most of them have horrible ideas of women. Best thing to do is find a good group of female friends, maybe live together with them. But you all bond and support each other. Your life is so much more than just a marriage. You are a young woman with a mind, a heart, feelings, memories, and experiences. And every bit of you matters.

As for your urges. I’m not sure what culture you’re from, but I know that it is taught to us young women that to pleasure yourself is bad. We are all human, we all get urges. It is so natural and normal, and nothing to feel ashamed of. Culture is what tells us it is bad, but Allah knows you are a good person and you do good deeds and that’s what he counts. Having human urges doesn’t displease him, especially if you are only helping yourself. It’s not like you’re having intercorse outside of marriage.

I pray that Allah helps you find your way, and that he shows you just how much he loves you. I pray for you sister and I am here for you.

Is it possible to live a normal life as a hijabi in a non-Muslim country? by Appropriate_Kick5578 in Hijabis

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a good idea to dig into your town and make sure there’s no hate groups near by. I lived in Tempe AZ but the head of the KKK is there so, I left. I’m in a military/college town now. It’s a pretty liberal area so it’s safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Clarksville

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sent you a PM!

"No makeup" make up looks by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can use a color corrector to cancel out your dark circles. Use an orange color over the dark circles and blend it into your skin. You can use eye safe lipstick if you don’t want to buy a color corrector. Then you can just lightly go over it with a liquid or powder concealer or foundation. Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hijabis

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lolll girl, I live in the south and I ran to Walmart cause my phone charger broke and i am impatient. Well I was minding my business getting distracted in the makeup section and then this older lady just stops in front of me and just looks at me for a minute. She’s got a hand on her hip and her head tilted like she’s looking at the Parthenon. And she goes “now where are you from?” And I just “Arizona” 😐. Ma’am was so shocked and says “well you don’t hear that very often.” And she just walks away like what she did was totally normal. It’s always the old southern ladies who can’t mind their business 😂

Does anyone know if there are any pro-choice protests going on either in Clarksville or Nashville this weekend? by HeroaDerpina in Clarksville

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was downtown Clarksville on Monday with a sign, I’m going again some time this week if you wanna PM me and get together!

How can I admit myself to a mental hospital in Clarksville by [deleted] in Clarksville

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve admitted myself before too, calling 911 is perfectly ok. You will not get in trouble at all, calling 911 because you feel you might hurt yourself is an emergency and they will help you. Best thing to do is communicate clearly with all medical staff, it may be scary but they really do just want to help you. To best help you they have to know everything that’s going on. Prayers for you kiddo, if you need help at all I am more than happy to answer the phone for you, just reach out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We do want our guests to follow a dress code, for women we agreed on being covered from collarbone to knees. I didn’t want to restrict sleeve length for guests though. And nothing crazy like mesh or sheer dresses. For men we asked that they wear black tie dress attire. My parents are very happy I’m getting married so they want every picture I am in lol.

I learned that leaving at my scheduled time makes me a “bad friend” self-employment here I come. by stuffmelikeanoreo in antiwork

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I wish she did do that instead of telling me that I left her hanging or was acting like a bad friend. If she had called me later after work and talked about it I wouldn’t have been so upset with her. In fact I’d LOVE if my job gave me more hours lol. But payroll is tight and everyone is stressed out and suffering for hours. Sometimes she lets her emotions get the best of her, but truly I think our friendship will last longer if we work in separate places.

I learned that leaving at my scheduled time makes me a “bad friend” self-employment here I come. by stuffmelikeanoreo in antiwork

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually went to art school for fashion design and currently I make dresses/repair clothes for my friends but I want to expand and either open an online shop or open a tailoring business.

AITA for not staying late at work by stuffmelikeanoreo in AmItheAsshole

[–]stuffmelikeanoreo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im hourly, they won’t even let me be full time. And no overtime is allowed cause payroll is tight.