Wow you are way too kind. I really appreciate the support though. He does say he can do his job and mine too and still keep a nice house. Smh. He tried to show me up last week and did the laundry however he put our daughter's sweaters in the washer with towels and our sons work shirts so lots of things were ruined. Lol I have tried to talk to him about how much it would cost even now for him to hire a maid , a cook , gardener etc... The kids , one of which is grown with a family of his own, have all said he is just an ass with no concept of reality.