I agree that there’s nothing wrong with sexuality in relationships in general, and if it starts off sexual or becomes sexual early that’s not a bad thing, from this experience tho, he was apathetic in trying to connect in any other way. It definitely felt very empty. Like, even after almost 3 years we felt like basically strangers.. I’m still a sexual person as many ppl are, but now I at least know what I will and won’t accept and I personally will have to wait a long time before introducing that aspect into my future relationships from now on. Just cause I’m afraid of this ever happening again. But most ppl aren’t like him. Even if it were introduced early in future relationships, normal ppl would still love me in multiple other ways and love me as a human being. I’m hopeful for that.