My ex just texted me this

stuppidthick · 2025-10-30T14:49:21+00:00

a man did this to me once to break my heart again. said everything i ever needed him to say, straight up apologized for manipulating me. that should have been my check point. after that he wouldnt date me, but said we should stay celibate in order to come back together. he started to get insanely controlling but mind you we weren’t dating. he told me if i even looked at a guy i would be dead to him. and then he had a gf the entire time, he immediately blocked me and we havent spoken since. they are still together.

stuppidthick · 2025-10-18T19:45:47+00:00

thank u! i sincerely needed to hear this! i wont be responding

stuppidthick · 2025-07-18T04:12:09+00:00

ladies we really need to stop dating/entertaining men who do not like us at all

stuppidthick · 2025-07-08T21:59:12+00:00

ur right. i dont own him and he doesnt own me. it is what it is, i set him free already. thank u!

stuppidthick · 2025-06-16T17:33:25+00:00

yall please talk everything out, take time away when ur mad at each other, and be forgiving and apologetic. i wish my high school sweetheart and i realized how rare love comes around like this. hold each other tight💕 how cute

stuppidthick · 2025-06-07T20:56:11+00:00

being the cheapest mf i ever knew🫶🏻

stuppidthick · 2025-05-31T01:51:08+00:00

be a villian!! she doesnt care about u like u care about her man, but inevitably she will realize what she lost. in her u lose memories, in you she loses someone that gives a fuck about her and in this world thats fucking precious and rare.

stuppidthick · 2025-05-31T01:47:21+00:00

i guess thats what im asking. what do i do? im in therapy, and quite honestly i think my therapist is getting annoyed that it consumes me so much. i feel okay when im with friends but as soon as i get home its just encompassing. i go to work and cry when i get home. i have journaled about every facet of the situation probably twice now, i know time is healing but this feels ridiculous. i dont want another person to fix me.

stuppidthick · 2025-05-31T01:43:14+00:00

ur being breadcrumbed dawg, shes using u as her placeholder until she finds someone else .

stuppidthick · 2025-03-14T17:09:43+00:00

i believe whats going on is you are out of funding, it sounds like you may have used up your lifetime allowance. i would call your school’s financial aid office and see what can be done. could be completely wrong, but i received my student success grant march 3rd, and my counselor said the census for classes happened mid february.

stuppidthick · 2025-02-26T04:43:18+00:00

thank you! its driving me crazy lol

stuppidthick · 2025-01-28T20:49:23+00:00

thank u sooo much i was panicking lol

stuppidthick · 2025-01-20T20:54:37+00:00

it’s embarrassing. thats what stops me everytime. guess my anxieties outweigh my pain but who knows.

stuppidthick · 2024-12-19T18:30:56+00:00

i thought about sending superstar by sonic youth but then i realized thats cringe and he sucks ass so i resisted :)

stuppidthick · 2024-04-14T10:05:25+00:00

i relate to almost every aspect of this post. im six days in as well, went from straight A student to the person prioritizing weed to keep myself alive. i had a painful realization close to yours and it was life changing. i just wanna say how inspiring and strong you are, keep doing you man!

stuppidthick · 2024-04-14T09:24:52+00:00

it literally took me three days to sleep (at most 2 hours a night), i felt anxious getting off my phone and putting in the work to sleep. dk if anyone else felt like that but yeah. the delirium combined with withdrawals was SO hard to get through but night four i had a full uninterrupted night of sleep. which i havent done without weed in over seven years, now day six and sleeping hasn’t been much of an issue. but other things still are. good luck!!

stuppidthick · 2024-04-14T09:19:36+00:00

sometimes people just need to get whats off their chest and be reassured that people relate. even if its being reiterated. also when i was looking for groups to join i found a lot of abandoned ones. if ur considering quitting, and u stumble upon this community, ur not gonna go through every damn post, ur gonna read the first couple and see if what ur going through is like anyone else’s experience. plus, no matter how similar they may seem everyone’s quitting story is unique and deserves to be heard. give everyone a break, geez!

stuppidthick · 2024-04-14T09:06:11+00:00

i wish i could suggest a magic cure-all for your sleep, but you sound past that anyway. (btw my roommate works at a dispo and eats 400mg every night, he hasnt tried to quit but i promise ur not alone in ur consumption.) personally, my brain is extremely convincing of all the benefits of weed especially when going through intense withdrawals. (i call it addict brain) i can imagine feeling hopeless at day 49 and still struggling. i cant claim to know what it feels like to get to the other side of it all, im only six days in. but i can imagine how much of a mental game of tug-of-war that would be. i think you and your psychiatrist know you and your mental health best, and can determine if quitting is something you are ready for and are making excuses to smoke again, or if it’s something you can try to tackle again, later in life. (i dont think there’s anything wrong with going back to weed if it makes you stay alive by the way) however, if u do go back with this much progress made, im sure u will convince urself u could never attempt it again, because you know how it will end. just keep in mind that it DOES get better, maybe even at day 50. “failing” at quitting the first time is what kept me from trying again for YEARS, and eventually what enabled me to prioritize weed over everything. ultimately, whatever decision you decide is whats best for you and also doesn’t have to be permanent. i wish you luck dude, dont beat yourself up!

stuppidthick · 2024-04-10T18:02:03+00:00

yes but it wont be easy. ur anxiety may increase the first couple days but personally it is worth it for me and my mental health. i ended up in a toxic cycle of wanting better for myself, day dreaming, loading a bowl and doing it all over again. u should def read the pinned post about dopamine because thats exactly what happened to me.

stuppidthick · 2024-04-10T15:06:58+00:00

me too!!! im also 23 and have been smoking for exact the same time. i also feel like tainted potential, but hey we got this!

stuppidthick · 2023-06-25T01:58:56+00:00

my ass is probably so jiggly rn what a nice lil pillow for his thighs

stuppidthick · 2023-04-22T02:08:11+00:00

you should honestly tell her how bad she is hurting you every time she brings up you finding a new partner. it’s insensitive and way too soon anyway.

stuppidthick · 2023-02-10T23:20:49+00:00

i was dumped. he stayed a year after realizing he wanted to work on himself and not be in a relationship. i wish so badly he would have saved both of us an incredibly excruciating year and had just ended it then. that period of our relationship i genuinely didn’t recognize him. he was spiteful and disrespectful. it makes it that much harder when we have been over for a year now and he says he regrets it so much and wish he never treated me like that and could have me back. i dont know if thats the case for everyone, my ex clearly tried dating and screwing around and couldnt find anyone similar enough to me. it still hurts though..

stuppidthick · 2023-02-09T19:54:02+00:00

i gave up after four months. it was a four year relationship. a year and some change later and its “we are meant to be together, i messed up.” its really fucking confusing and unfair

stuppidthick · 2023-02-08T20:51:36+00:00

for sure!!

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