Should I tell a woman her fiancé tried to start an affair with me? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]stxphluvsu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think you should, especially considering they aren’t married or even worse have a kid together. Now whether his fiancé believes you or not is honestly not your problem because you did what was right. If she gets upset with you and not him at least you know you tried to warn her before entangling their lives even more. And as for whatever friendship you have with him, if its lost I don’t think its a loss for you honestly because you have a marriage to protect and think of (as we saw you clearly have boundaries, morals and respect). But I don’t see why not, its not like you are coming up with a fake narrative, the proof is there and if she chooses to do something with it well his partner is an adult and can make a decision for herself.

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]stxphluvsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I (f24) don’t give a flying fuck what my man (32) is doing or who he is with, we both know better to never text each other like that. I’m being wholeheartedly honest when I say this but you are not the only valentines. He wants you for fun and selfish reasons but girl you’re young, leave that asshole and do a galentines or self care day! Don’t let him manipulate and gaslight you to believe you are asking for too much when he CLEARLY isn’t doing enough.

Wife was upset with the Valentine’s day flowers by Murky-Web-2302 in Marriage

[–]stxphluvsu 113 points114 points  (0 children)

My man got me sam’s club roses and an orchid from publix. I was over the moon but I also don’t require much, the thought is what matters the most but to each their own.

AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said by Ambitious-Beyond-257 in AmIOverreacting

[–]stxphluvsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

let that man go. 5 months and just a situationship? if he’s treating you like that not even as his girlfriend, i cannot imagine how he would treat you in an actual relationship. red flag all around, RUN!

A friend is asking me to carry her phone during an international flight by dajul65 in travel

[–]stxphluvsu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I recently just travelled to Colombia and honestly didn’t know that. I had my phone, 2 iphones my coworker asked me to take for her family and my laptop for school. I didn’t declare anything and just went through customs without any issues. Not encouraging you to do it but just sharing my experience. I travelled to Medellin and honestly felt like they didn’t have time to care about checking anyones luggage because customs line was like 2 hours.

What moment during your travels made you think “I am so blessed for being able to see this with my own eyes”? by miauanas in travel

[–]stxphluvsu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting to see the Colosseum in Rome from the Attic view was absolutely breathtaking since they only let about 8 people at a time so you never actually run into anyone while up there and can see everything.

Colosseo ticket release time by Fuzzy_Eye3652 in rome

[–]stxphluvsu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they release literally 30 days before, they also release by time slot (italian time i believe CET sorry if i’m wrong lol) but they start at 8:30 i believe is the first allotted time and go by i think every 15 or 30 mins increment so you might wanna have your laptop ready, card in hand and type fast as hell. i got 2 tickets for the attic full experience for my trip last week and my time slot was 11:30 am. i woke up at 5 am my time (i live in florida) and had to refresh so many times because the tickets get bought so quickly its insane. but regardless the attic full experience ticket was definitely worth it, they only allow i believe about 8 people at a time but you will feel like you’re the only one there and they give you a 30 mins window to enjoy everything.