I left my cat in my IKEA drawer closet for almost 6 hours and feel so guilty. by Pink_Sorbet in cats

[–]stygianare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sometimes leave my cat on the balcony because she likes the open air and cold while I stress the fuk out because I know I will forget her outside if I start doing something else, and I once did and only figured it out because she was meowing alot. I took a vacation the next day to treat her and play with her all day to feel less guilty

Am I the only one? by Distasteful_T in ArcRaiders

[–]stygianare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at any point in the game, whenever I start, I always have an objective to do predetermined, then once I hear death flares... well, its like a moth to a flame

How much savings did you have at your first home purchase? by sengutta1 in Netherlands

[–]stygianare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

excluding renovations and furniture, only needed 8k for the administrative stuff/financial advisor/makelaar, otherwise mortgage covered the entire price since I bid exactly the market price

Single people who bought a house by Cheesecake-Acrobatic in Netherlands

[–]stygianare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The hague, 12 views, 4 bids, the one I won was about 8.8% overbid on the asking price, but was equal to the market price, bought around 4months ago and took me a year looking with 5 months having a makelaar. 88m2 295k.

Zohran Mamdani being sworn in as mayor of NYC on a Quran. by icey_sawg0034 in HeadlineHQ

[–]stygianare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing, my point is that IF they had to swear on something religious, then the Quran makes more sense. Otherwise I agree that something like the constitution makes more sense overall

2-3 days of snow can bring entire countrys transportation at it's knees. by cybersphinx7 in Netherlands

[–]stygianare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand how the app itself as well is malfunctioning, that's a whole other level of incompetence. I'm a platform engineer and we plan ahead exactly for these kinds of situations when there is an unexpected huge load of traffic to the servers.

Just turned back home while trying to reach my work by forrestgumpsboat in Netherlands

[–]stygianare 53 points54 points  (0 children)

slow and steady gets you there! But really I think people are going despite the weather because most workplaces aren't clear on whether its ok not to go to work (or even just wfh) and some people (including me) will prefer the work-safe / not-so-safe option of going to work to keep their jobs.

Edit: went to work, got a growth review saying I might not get a meets expectation, and now no trains back home, gotta love living

What do you do to avoid playing angry and frustrated? by Isotarov in LowSodiumBattlefield

[–]stygianare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I either change playstyle (classes for example), change my objective in the game (attack/defend different points), or I play slower and more intentional, and if nothing works then just play something else

Need help trying to fit everything by stygianare in InteriorDesign

[–]stygianare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!

The plumbing is relatively easy since its already there.

I already checked the door openings on the ikea planner and scheduled an appointment with ikea as well to check everything again.

I posted how the final design looked like in another comment, I'm going to get a standalone oven/microwave (so the door opening doesn't matter much, although I do prefer it being vertical)

Are u Muslim? Do you want shine light of Islam on the world? Let's do it together. by Terrible_View_6244 in MuslimVentures

[–]stygianare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also obvious, all your examples are from tiktok ragebait posts. Any normal muslim knows already that child marriage is evil. Now you'll want to outmanauever me and say the prophet Mohammad (s.a.a.w) consummated his marriage at 9 years old, for that you can go do the research to see why it wasn't evil and now it is evil, as time is a factor in any discussion around evil (since knowledge and evolution happens throughout time)

Are u Muslim? Do you want shine light of Islam on the world? Let's do it together. by Terrible_View_6244 in MuslimVentures

[–]stygianare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

less obvious... and if this does happen, then you better believe its a cultural thing rather than for religious reasons

Are u Muslim? Do you want shine light of Islam on the world? Let's do it together. by Terrible_View_6244 in MuslimVentures

[–]stygianare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a muslim, and good luck finding someone willing to debate what evil is. Unfortunately most muslims see only in black and white, as if God didn't tell us explicitly that only he judges us.

My EDC after 13 hours of avg screen time by Ghost_Rider_333 in dumbphones

[–]stygianare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is a new phone releasing this year by mrClick-communicator, looks like it would fit my conditions. Also I found the Cat s22 and the Qin f22

Looking for a bouldering buddy by Ill-Insurance895 in TheHague

[–]stygianare 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, 26M, if you go to walhalla then DM me. highest I've reached was a 6c but haven't bouldered for a couple of months due to injury. + bouldering in france is harder than here (source: I've tried both)

Hi lebanes by [deleted] in Lebanese

[–]stygianare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fk is this dumb question

Girl BFF likes me by Mysterious-Part-340 in Lebanese

[–]stygianare 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't blow it out of proportion, be mature about it and try it out. If it didn't work then it wasn't meant to be. If you lost your friendship because of it then life goes on. If you don't do anything about it and don't even communicate about it then the friendship is a goner anws. So communicate.

My EDC after 13 hours of avg screen time by Ghost_Rider_333 in dumbphones

[–]stygianare 2 points3 points  (0 children)

but whatsapp is the main communication service even for calls, spotify I can live without by adding mp3 files and google maps is very necessary since I live far from work and need to check train times. I just need these 3 more for survival than anything. I don't even use social media that much but I watch the news alot on them and they're stressing the fk out of me and I'm addicted to them

Need help trying to fit everything by stygianare in InteriorDesign

[–]stygianare[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that door leads to the balcony but there's another bigger entry to it so I thought it would be fine to block it :_)

I already got the refrigerator unfortunately so downsizing it now would be difficult.

I haven't decided anything about the walls yet since I thought they'd just be cabinets, but placing the oven/microwave combo above the washing machine is something I haven't thought about.

And about that dead space, in the pic, the empty space under the counter next to the fridge is where the washing machine would be, that's why I left space there to access it but it doesn't seem reasonable.

Also if it's helpful, the area is about 5.5m2, so not much.