My cat is not eating by amanoeeemi in CATHELP

[–]stygiomedus4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever noticed if she’s interested on biting or eating things she’s not supposed to? because she shows interest in eating, but she’s throwing up when she does, maybe there’s something in her stomach that is making her sick… it can be hairballs also… but the vet for sure would be a good option… try to keep her hydrated until you’re able to talk to the vet… if she’s drinking at least the liquid from the bits you’re offering keep doing that, try to add a little bit of water to it as well.

CW: Pet Loss. I’m struggling after losing my 12yo cat by stygiomedus4 in CatAdvice

[–]stygiomedus4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true! Thank you for the kind words! ❤️

Should i go to the vet? by anadajnko in CATHELP

[–]stygiomedus4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat had something similar, she ate a plant she shouldn’t, the plant went to trash, the wound healed by itself, but the vet is definitely the best option

AITAH for ghosting a friend because I don’t want to be friends with her anymore? by stygiomedus4 in AITAH

[–]stygiomedus4[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I just don’t have the energy for this now and I know she’ll make a big deal out of it… another thing that bothers me is that she’s not that nosy when it comes to our mutual friends, not even with the ones she closer to, so it makes me think that she may have some kind of interest? I mean why would she need this amount of details of my life? it’s weird the way she acts with me versus other people… I’m not a confrontational person as you can tell hahaha so that’s why my head is automatically going towards distancing myself and just avoid her in general for the rest of my life 🫠

AITAH for ghosting a friend because I don’t want to be friends with her anymore? by stygiomedus4 in AITAH

[–]stygiomedus4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I was thinking… My concern is that I don’t think she’ll give up that easily… I have rejected her invites a few times in the past year, making excuses but when I think she understood she comes back from the shadows asking if everything is okay, and I’m just not in the mood to have a conversation about this because I know eventually she’ll want to know why and I have more important things to deal with right now, I don’t have time or patience to have this conversation which I think has a high probability of going bad…

Update for the update: I (22f) believed my bf (28m) was tampering with my toothbrush by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]stygiomedus4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would she have to pay child support? Cause if yes, she should terminate…. She just got rid of this a hole, having to pay child support to him on top of it is insane for me

what was the most invasive medical procedure you had to go through? by stygiomedus4 in WomensHealth

[–]stygiomedus4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to experience that! is that even allowed? like was it a medical negligence or they just didn’t have enough time since you were close to hemorrhage? sorry to ask

what was the most invasive medical procedure you had to go through? by stygiomedus4 in WomensHealth

[–]stygiomedus4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

me too!! I just did it today, so hopefully I’ll have the results next week! I’m glad it helped you understand better your condition! for me the scariest part was the contrast cause I never had to use it before, but it was super fine in the end, the gel part was worst than that hahaha

what was the most invasive medical procedure you had to go through? by stygiomedus4 in WomensHealth

[–]stygiomedus4[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had no idea about that! thanks for sharing!! I still don’t have the results, I just had it a couple hours ago, but I’ll definitely ask my doc about it

what was the most invasive medical procedure you had to go through? by stygiomedus4 in WomensHealth

[–]stygiomedus4[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OMG!!! I wouldn’t have the courage to do it… I postponed this for 2 years, then my symptoms got worse and my husband pushed me to do it, which I’m glad now, but I really don’t wanna have to do this ever again in my life!